In college. One of my plates is really pining for exclusivity. She's obsessed with my dick but has straight up called me out on being a player, come to my door crying asking where we stand etc., which is really fucking with her head (she's definitely BPD).

I'm never going to give exclusivity to a girl like this but I might upgrade her to fwb because she's putting in effort and she's fun to be around.

Problem is, I know she keeps a lot of orbiters around and is always fiending for male attention because I don't give it to her (usually just fuck her, make her leave, don't text her otherwise, ignore most of her texts, like all my other plates). This kind of behaviour bothers me since I'm not really comfortable with a girl who keeps orbiters around.

Would it be a beta move to be like "I know you like me and you're trying to show it, but if you want more you'll have to cut off all the guys you're stringing along"?

Alternatively I could just keep her as a plate and find some other chick to upgrade.