I’m good at understanding other people but I’m having trouble knowing where I am with a girl. Like yesterday night I was on a walk with this girl and she kept talking about guys being creeps to her and her “stalker”. I have no idea why but it feel like it guilted me even though I’ve done nothing like that. After we talked for a bit invited her over for a movie and hooked up.
Is it because she felt comfortable around me to talk about it? Or she was trying to show a weird twisted high value by being worthy of creeps and stalkers? It just really threw me off and made me feel like a creep.
I also feel like a lot of the time they don’t like me but I usually end up hooking up with them. Maybe a confidence issue? I just don’t know where I’m at with a lot of girls pre hookup. Better ways to figure this out? This is at Uni so it’s not directly getting girls in like a more dating way like tinder so it’s harder to tell for me.
