Got this plate on tinder...fucked 4x already

I think it’s mostly performance anxiety but my dick goes from hard to soft right after I put the condom on, especially the 4th time...the third time was great stayed hard the entire time and fucked her good, gave me a high five for my performance lol...are plates quick to leave after one bad performance? I was upset with myself after the 4th time...I’m trying to be selfish and not worry about her getting off...I even ordered viagra and I think that’ll help if I use it a couple times to gain confidence

She also texts like 1-2 words responses but she always agrees to meet up...almost like a guy...and recently she started initiating first, asking me to come by to abuse all of her holes....never seen anything like it but I guess it’s a good thing? And I should never text besides logistics?

Lastly she’s taller than me I’m only about 5’6 she’s probably 5’8...I walk in the other day and it was hard for me to stay confident but I think I did well...she had heels on she was probably 5’10 with them on lol...I just acted like nothing but maybe this was a shit test?