So let me run you through and paint the picture in great detail.
Super open about the details so constructive feedback goes a long way.
I personally think I'm too closed off and it seems like I dont want to connect (my guess) but let me know.
So I get a lot of choosing signals on daily basis and it's usually decent interest.
So let me use a specific example of this specific date to illustrate a picture because every girl I've slept with has had same outcome.
This girl in my gym finds me on tinder and then finds me on instagram and follows me.
She has some serious ass.
I follow her and dm her the next day like "Hey, how did you find my ig etc etc"
She displayed high interest.
So I get her number and I call her for 20 mins. We chat and she sounds feminine. Everything is fantastic.
We text and I usually keep my texting game simple - break contact every 1-3 hours and once its broken, I text every 5-10 min for a like 8 texts back and fourth.
I keep my NST investment minimal.
So we text and I set up a date.
Then 3 days later one night I wanted to be more spontaneous. She loved it.
I messaged her in the evening saying "what you doing tonight" (not a cold message but through the conversation).
She said she got lots of work to do because her stepdad is coming the next day etc.
So I say"shame, I was going to see you tonight" She responded well saying that I should've told her earlier and that she would've changed her plans for me.
Then I tell her "I cooked up some good food, got some snacks and about to put a movie on so I thought I'd invite you to hang out"
She loved it and I ended up going to her place. When at her place, I hold my masculine frame, I speak in deep voice and seductive one.
I get comfy and built instant comfort. The thing is I dont talk about myself ever. Unless she asks me. I do engage in convo though and react in a masculine and non-simp way. I dont validate her but I do throw a little small talk here and there.
In 15 minutes of me walking in, we watch a movie and I casually make the small moves. Super seductive and I basically seduced her panties off. Unless I'm delusional.
She suddenly starts kissing me. Things get up quick. I'm currently in process fixing PIED through nofap and I've just started.
I ended up using foreplay on her mind and her p**** and she came twice like she got possessed by a demon and its entering her soul.
She was a waterfall at this point. I was dominating her and she loved it... Everything was going like it should.
She begged me to f### her and I had a condom that I brought but checking my pocket I couldn't find it..
I made her bust twice again... We pass out and next morning I find my condom on the floor........ Bruh....
Anyway, I text her next day saying it was good to see you and have a good day..
3 days later I get this:
Hey, I'm doing well. Sorry I haven't texted, I think you're a great guy but I don't think there's a connection, and would be unfair to waste your time. No hard feelings at all and I'm sure I'll see you around 😊 again I'm very sorry, have a good day!
I was like what? ....
It's not about the rejection but about the fact I dont get the outcome I want.
I think it could be because:
- I need to talk a little more and talk more about me too.
- I'm a respectful asshole who makes fun of them and makes them bust like crazy but no validation.
-I didn't f### her?
-she was only looking for a ONS like all other girls?
-I portray an image of a guy who has a front about him like he is a sex god and I csnt deliver their expectations. (although I make them bust)
- I need to get more charisma and talk more before f###ing?
Bruh at this point I'm willing to question my game because I f### all the time dont get me wrong. But its ONS... but I want to like a girl a little you know... Pump and dump isn't that great when it goes nowhere.
there doesn't seem to be anything here