CMV: Women generally not aware that they are basically all going for the same type of guys.

I think most women are attracted to a similar type of man, those that the forum would probably call Chads. They're tall, attractive, have nice manly facial features, work out, are good in social situations, and ideally are well educated and/or high income as well. Almost by definition, these guys are rare. Women are not aware that the men they are attracted to are only a small subset, and most other women want them too.