I went on a date with my ltr. I planned this date a week before, and she says shes available. I had also booked an airbnb for the night too. We met a few days before the date and she says she has midterms that week of our upcoming date. I thought of this of her flaking. She then makes other arrangements like wanted to bring me over to her place to study and cuddle. I mentioned the airbnb, and she said shed rather do it in her place after we finish our time outside. What flipped my boat was when she said shed also be fine if we both just stayed in our own homes and just facetime eachother. Im here, like, WTF. I said cancel the date, its not happening. She was upset of that, and I left. She apologized the next day, and wanted the date to happen. Everything seemed good.

On the date, I took her to places(arcade, restaurant) and had fun. She was even groping my ass and touching my dick at some moments. We went and took the train and was hoping to get to the airbnb and do the deed. But during the ride, she was saying how degrading she felt doing it in airbnb when weve done it before there. I told her that I decided to crash at her place. She then mentions that I can come over to her place or to just go home. I felt disrespected right then and there. She kept pushing on when we reached a train station, "your train is here, youll be going home earlier than me". After that I just gave her the cold shoulder. I went and took the train home. She notices and blows up my phone texting if she did anything wrong. I gave short replies saying "no","nothing, See you". She went and sext me 2 days after. That just made me felt like more of a cuck.

Was this a shit test that she pulled on me? Should I have pushed on to bring me to her place and not have gave in? I felt like I didnt have enough balls to push the narrative to go to her place.

I was also in a long distance with her for 5 months during covid. Met up this month and had sex a couple of times with her in a week, then it starts decling to once a week. Dont know if this is a sign..

Need advice!