I see a lot of posts about how women talk with their emotion, and that emotion releases the handbrakes that logic puts on. Case in point, I am seeing a woman and we like to have sex in random places, like an open field, or hood of my car in privacy, and the times that we did it were starting small like making out by my car to suddenly on the hood...but the open park one was very much no, it's late, then we got to the field and I said let's just walk, and she goes no, it's cold, there are ticks, etc. And then we are there laying under the stars and she texts me later and went that was amazing.

My point is, what are some ways you communicate with emotion to a woman to eventually do the thing that you know you both don't mind doing. She's not into it when it's before (someone could see us, etc.), so I want different ways to communicate without it having to be a battle every single time. Yes, I know she is testing frame as well, see if I cave and go "Oh it's ok, we don't have to", but I just want to know ways of lessening the frame game every single time we do something I know she'll enjoy.