Now I work, and the culture of the team is fucking fucked up. They don't know what personal boundaries are. It was my colleague who called me on Sunday, to a meeting with two girls. Well, you know what this is about. We are the same age, we are both 22 years old, he is married, he has a child, while he has sex on the side. I'm not a fan of running around women for sex, and I'm a virgin too, and that doesn't bother me. What is the point. How can I tactfully refuse, because otherwise, I will refuse rudely, because I absolutely do not want to go to some suspicious women for sex. And I don’t want to spend money. And also how to lie that I am not a virgin, this one believed, even though my lie was such to myself, they did not believe it at my last job.