So I’m talking with this girl I met last week. She’s high interest, we made out the first time we met (no logistics so I couldn’t fuck, we both live with our parents). I saw her again last night unplanned and we ended up getting drinks (she paid for me and my Uber home). We made out again but still no logistics to fuck. I told her I wanted to go upstairs but she said she doesn’t invite guys up that easily and that her dad was home. I didn’t and don’t really care.

We’re both going to the same party next weekend for Halloween. My plan is to try to fuck her outside or something since logistics won’t be there again. I don’t really care if this girl sees me as boyfriend material cuz I will just ignore her, but I can’t help but think that by not fucking her I’m putting myself in that category.

I’m still talking to other girls and she knows this. I’m not gonna make her fuck me if she doesn’t want to, but I’m also not gonna keep hanging out with her if she doesn’t want to. The thing is I don’t know how to convey this without trying to fuck her which I don’t really have the logistics to do rn (besides fucking her outside).

This girl is attracted to me. She paid for my Uber both times we met and she paid for my drinks. Any time I escalate she says I make her nervous. Am I setting myself up to be boyfriend material by not fucking her immediately, or do I still have time to plate her?