Long time lurker here and on the official TRP subreddit, I really need advice on this particular problem.

Just broke up with my LTR about a month ago, we were together for 3 years, the first year & a half was perfect, then the rest was constant stress and fights.

I don't mean to sound narcistic, but my SMV is pretty high, I'm 23, dress well, good looking, good facial structure, solid beard (I unfortunately shave it for work), consistently working out, 180lb around 15% bf, just started working as a paramedic (which is my dream job), and looking to go higher in education or joining the armed forces later on. Lots of passions & driven, weight training, jiu jitsu & target shooting, built my own garage gym during the first wave of covid. Etc.

I have no problems getting dates even during this Covid time, I had 2 dates since and another one scheduled next week.

The thing is I really miss her & miss the bond I had with her, the way I could just chat with her and talk to her about anything. I've lost that & I feel like I'm never going to find that type of link again, can someone just slap me out of that rut or just slam trp advices to my face. Feeling like a simp right now...