So I want to say that I'm a long time lurker of this sub, I like the red pill and have been able to applied some of its teachings myself which is great, but one common pattern that I've noticed in this sub is that guys are constantly blaming themselves for every single thing, and I thing that's the wrong approach of looking at things, here's an example of things I constantly see here:

"asktrp user": She was at my place, I said I didn't like tuna, and she got mad with me and left.

"User 1": hahaha noob, you should never...bla bla bla

"User 2": Ha! you screwed up idiot, you should have done...bla bla bla

This is an example of how all the users put the fault on the man having to do something a certain way in order to get the girl, what about what she did wrong?

Look I have met girls where I don't end up having sex with them even if they want it because THEY are the ones that do something extremely stupid while escalating, or sometimes THEY have some crazy mental issues that you should not care about.

example 1: this girl I was escalating with literally got mad while I was escalating because I said I was not gay and she said all her boyfriends need to be 5% percent gay -.-

example 2: everything was good, she was almost naked, and I was EXTREMELY tired, I tried she resists, I tried she resists, and I said fuck this shit and went home to sleep and stopped answering her messages.

example 3: she was really into me, but she retreated the first time, the second time I was extremely tired and then she's crying because she had to leave the country and we didn't do anything

WHY the FUCK ALL THESE "redpillers" in her are putting all the blame on the man?

This is how I go about it now, in the past I would have wondered what I did wrong, and I would start thinking a lot of possible reasons why it didn't go well, now I literally do not care, it's not my problem to figure her out, or if she doesn't like me it's her problem, not mine, so I move to the next girl inmediatly