Don’t you hate it how the “normal” standard for men makes it okay for them to lack in every aspect of life, but when men see other men that are of quality they get called “simps” or are called weird or my favorite “pussy whipped.” I can’t tell you how many men I’ve dated where they just lack, they can’t pick up after themselves and live in filth, worked at the same no effort job since 16, have no goals for a future, are porn sick and in general are womanizers but no one bats an eye at that that is just “men being men.” However, they pick on every man that isn’t like them. For example my boyfriend is the first man I dated when I enforced higher standards for myself and he’s a great guy, he has a career, doesn’t watch porn, never cheats and is open, and all around independent. The men in my family joke that he isn’t a real man and that he is “pussy whipped” because he does things for me. I feel a lot of his friends judge him because he’s not into going to strip clubs and what not. I just hate how quality men are seen as the minority, I’ve met so many shitty men in my life but very few good men. Why has it become okay for men to be this way? And how can they not feel any shame for how they live their lives