Saw this in today's paper. A recently single mother asks for help, gets help, declines help, now wants help again.

The first part of Carolyn's answer infers that the "husband was a bust", typically assuming the husband was the problem. Anyway, that wasn't even why I'm posting. Its more about how fickle women are.

https://www.washingtonpost.com/lifestyle/advice/carolyn-hax-family-is-always-there-for-you-its-the-always-part-shes-stuck-on/2020/11/02/b70221ae-1565-11eb-bc10-40b25382f1be_story.html