(fyi: english is not my native language so goodluck for you)

I was educated and braindwashed to become a "nice guy" apologizing beta bitch by the media and society.

That's the harsh truth, but once I understood ,internalized and accepted that fact, things started to make sense. It took lot of time and a lot of introspection, learning and self improvement, but these days I feel like Neo. I swallowed the pill like a good submissive wife should swallow her alpha husband's D every evening when he comes home from work, and since then, everything makes sense and the whole picture of reality looks clear.

For my whole life I believed these fairy tales about finding the "one", and thought that women didn't really care about your appearance, you just gotta treat them nice and be a good man, they don't care about money or apperance, just your "personality". They will unlock their legs if you'll treat them nice, care about them and act like their perfect future husband. Just "be yourself!" Treat them well and they will love you unconditionally. All I knew about relationships was the typical bullshit you get in tv shows like "dawson's creek" and hollywood films.

I was a clueless bitch in a pile of shit.

When the last girl I went out dating with gave me the famous "let's just be friends" speech after I did all the "right" things society and the media tells you to do, and I barely got anything out of Tinder (how come they don't like my clever texting, invested bio and my "nice guy" attitude? do they really care only about my apperance? No way! Girls are better than that! Only males are so superficial!) I decided it's time to change the way I look at reality and act in life.

I read a lot of books (how to become a 3% man, the way of the superior man, etc..), read a lot of red pill material in reddit and basically changed my whole belief system in life.

I opened a fake tinder account with pictures of an unknown actor in my country, with no bio and nothing else...suddenly I got 50+ likes each day (instead of maybe 2-3 a week). I didn't have to start converstaions in clever/funny/unique ways, just simple "hi *bitch's name*" and was dull and boring AF throughout the enitre convo, yet they BEGGED me to come over. How come?

That for me, was the most important experiment I've ever done in my life. In a few minutes of opening that fake account, I busted that stupid myth of girls don't giving a damn about your apperance that I believed in for years. All female friends I had, and all women I heard talking about what they looking for in men..turned out to be a complete fucking lie. Don't give a damn about what females SAY, but notice what they DO.

I went to the gym 4 times a week, gained muscle, started sleeping at least 8 hours a day and stopped being an apologizing beta shit. Opened a new tinder account with real photos of improved me, and each week I meet 2 new females, and mostly one out of 3 I will fuck in the second date.

All these pickup bullshit online is way too calculated and unnecessary, just keep your smv high and things will be ez pz.

We live in days where males aren't allowed to be true males, we get lied and brainwashed from the day we are born, and that's a real danger. That whole feminism and "metoo" movement is a cancer for the brotherhood of men.

I'm just glad I found this community and got out of the matrix. I know I will never go back again to what I was before. At first I was angry how come that I've been lied to all these years? But eventually you just learn that that's just the way things are and to take care of your life, because no one else will.