Military here, there’s a civilian chick that works at our cafeteria. I want to get her number.

I know it’s recommended not to shit where you eat, literally.

I’ve made small talk with her blah blah. Im trying to figure out if it’s better to get her number or leave mine with her. I dont want things to get awkward if she rejects me but i also dont want her to feel trapped.

What would y’all recommend