Some dudes are indifferent if not hostile towards women over 35 (sometimes even younger than that) saying they've hit the wall and stuff which I simply don't understand.

I always admired older women so maybe I'm biased, but I feel like men who do (not just attraction I mean being truly interested in them as people) tend to be much more empathetic and feminist and just have a healthy attitude towards sexuality and women than those who don't.

Perfect example that I love them both is Stevie Nicks & Harry Styles. They clearly respect and love each other and it's just the sweetest purest thing I've ever seen. He even called her a lover in his induction speech for her at the Rock Hall and I honestly think they have a mutual crush. Harry just seems like a nice dude who rejects toxic masculinity and I imagine Stevie likes those qualities about him too.

Dave Grohl is 53 and has a sorta similar relationship with her, and he's handsome hella cool and looks young for his age so that gives me some hope that women I know can still see me like that at 36, although he's also a famous rock star and I'm obviously not lol.

Age aside though there's plenty of older women I've gotten life advice from when I was younger and now too (men too of course, but just as many if not more women). I just kinda wish I was 10 years younger so I'd be more like Harry now!