so to summarize, met this girl 2 weeks ago. we will call her "X", went on a date the first week we met and smoked + smashed the first date, she's lowkey pushing for a relationship now and suddenly has all these expectations that I text her for more than just logistics and I'm not down with that so I havent been very responsive, mostly focused on my work talking to girls on tinder and one from my weightlifting course.

tried asking "X" out for a date on the beach yesterday since there was free food and stuff going on, she asks me if I have a friend for her friend implying she's bringing someone and i shut that down and texted "I meant for this date to between us, if today isn't a good time that's fine". after thinking about it though I dont need this female with her attitude (and obviously scheming with her friends) around me

I was thinking of sending a text to close things but I mostly want her weed guy's phone number (lol). is sending something like:

"hey, not sure where things went wrong, thought we had a good vibe going but I wish you the best

also can you send your plug's #?"

is that fucked up?