I have 3-4 plates right now. I have one main plate that I spend a lot of time fucking because she's a nympho and the sex is on another level. I've known her for about 3 months now. She said she has feelings for me and does things like cook for me, take me out to restaurants, etc, basically treats me like her alpha, has come to me crying asking where we stand. However, she exhibits some really red flag behaviour - is always on tinder making people follow her, meets up with guys off tinder and friendzones them.

As a result of spending all this time with her I'm slowly starting to catch feelings. I'm travelling right now and fucked a new chick last night but I couldn't help but think of my plate while I was fucking this chick. That's when I knew something was wrong. I am spinning other plates and hunting for new ones but this one keeps occupying my mind. Should I hard next in this case?