Met this girl through a friend, went on one date with her then fucked day after, no contact for 2 days after that. Went to her house party, she was all over me kissing, showing me off to her friends, rejected other guy’s advances in front of me etc but I didn’t escalate. Arranged to go grab some food last week but I had to cancel first time round coz I was hungover to shit, she cancelled second time round after we rescheduled. Bumped into her on a club night after, she was with me most of the night, kissing (same shit again) etc but again I didn’t escalate.

Messaged her the following day to set up logistics to grab food since we didn’t go last week, got a very weird response which I can’t quite work out is a shit test or she’s showing low interest. She said “I do really wanna say yes but I’m worried I’m gonna have to cancel again. Actually nah I just won’t actually cancel but you might have to come and pull me away or wake me up”.

This isn’t the first weird response I’ve gotten from her, after cancelling the second time round she said “It’s so annoying that I have to cancel on you. I don’t wanna keep being annoying so let’s leave it for a bit” but then after that I bumped into her at the club and she was all over me again. I should probably also mention she’s shit tested me a lot before we fucked but has increased the shit tests since we fucked.