I’m 16 and have been with many women in the past year, however there’s a girl who I have to see everyday (at school) and she’s really gotten to me. It makes me sick because I don’t want to have feelings for a girl because I see it as a distraction - but that doesn’t help because I DO like her. A lot. I literally have to sit with her in class (the teacher has a seating plan). I’ve gotten with other women and am taking a different girl out this week to try to cure my oneitis but I literally can’t get over her - she’s so stuck in my head and it sucks because I have to see her everyday. Someone with experience please help. I’m really considering the possibility of exclusivity with her (until school ends which is 7 months away, then I’d end it) but yeah I’m genuinely considering the idea of committing to her just so I’m not going insane whilst at school because I DO like her. This is just so surreal to me because I never thought I’d ever actually get feelings for someone. So far I see two options:

  1. completely move on, go for other women (I have tried/ am trying this, still can’t get her out of my head)
  2. continue seeing her and eventually commit (for the rest of the school year)

Someone please help ive never considered exclusivity before and I genuinely like her which is insane to me. The thing that bugs me is I’ve gotten with other women and she’s still in my head and I have to see her everyday. Absolutely head fucked.