Summary - Girl goes AWALT (I lost frame)... Then it gets sinter and she goes AWOL.

I've been here for six months, and I have not posted because I'm aware of only providing high-quality content, perhaps this post does not meet that requirement, but I still feel I should post it anyway. The first part is like a FR, the second part is where it gets a bit sinister.

A couple months ago I went overseas for a holiday, met up with a girl (whom I later found out works in a bar as a waitress - yeah, yeah ;>) and we hung out together, she showed me around, was pretty feminine and sexy and generally it was fun time.

Anyway she has a visa that allows her into my country, so I tell her I will buy a ticket (it was on special) and she can come visit me, ticket is approx $250 (so not a lot - welcome to my country! High cost of living).

She tells me she wants to come see me badly but now is a bad time (too much to organise, etc), so text messages back and forth (probably failed frame a few times - texted replys too quick) for another three weeks and she says ready to come. Ticket prices are $600 - I made it clear that there was no way I was going to pay that - I'm poor!(especially when I could of paid $250). Anyway she asks me to send $200.... I am thinking where is she going to come up with $400....

Now usually I wouldn't send $$$ but she had a girlfriend (married-husband) who was having a baby living in my country whom she was going to stay with, and she was going to bring stuff over (and I had spoken to the husband), so there was enough evidence for me to give her benefit of doubt (I consider it to be low risk bet). On the text messages shes telling me how excited to see the Baby, etc.

Now during this times she keeps wanting to be my GF ("your my BF", "I miss you", etc) and I tell her "no, were just good mates who care about each other" (thank you TRP! - Do NOT get emotionally invested).

Anyway she comes here and I'm busy with work and basically cannot see her. Shes texting me telling me how much she misses me ,etc. There had been no plans to meet up to stay (I failed there!), but I was going to get her to come on a specific weekend and then she would stay longer.

So anyway she texts me and she wants to borrow $30 for some clothes (winter is cold and her country is hot - shes got no winter clothes and freezing her ass off) I ask her how I'm meant to give it to her and she says she wants to meet up, I tell her I will put the money in the husbands account as it was too much effort for her to come around (FAIL! I know she was horny at this point - the clothes were an excuse! well perhaps not totally... it was cold).

Anyway two days go by and I'm -going- (have not done it yet) to tell her to come see me on the weekend, however over these two days she goes quiet (I know she physically meet the guy on those two days). So she has changed behaviour (as TRP tells us).

Anyway I get a 'Dear John' text message. It stings for a little while but then I go to sleep and I'm fine (but also pissed $230!!!! WTF!!! - but I can't blame her - AWALT and all that). So I go no contact, etc.

Anyway the friends husband calls me a few times and I ignore. I am thinking perhaps she wants to apologise and get back into my good graces (shes Asian - so loss of face perhaps (who knows?) and she is getting the guy to ring for her so I won't blow up / get angry at her). Anyway I ignore the guys calls for a couple of weeks (I don't feel attracted to her at this point) and I get a text.

Anyway I finally ring the husband four days after the text. The guy tells me the following - she meet up with a guy called Jason on a date the day before I got my Dear John text and she went with him on the next night (so she didn't sleep with him on the first night - but she probably was horny at this point (girls can also want sex, not just guys), so I realised I had fucked up and I'm not surprised).

Now Jason meets the husband and the girl is saying "I love Jason" and the husband (rational mind NOT emotional) is saying "you don't know this guy, etc". She hamsters (and lies that she meet him in her country - Never did). Obviously he is giving her tingles - shes in love within two days!. Now she (or he) puts his photo on social media. And apparently she got a beta (well who knows, but we will just give him that name for now) to pay for her $600 ticket (hay we were never exclusive so I can't blame her). Now beta sees this and is pissed and cancels the ticket (fair enough - we don't know what she has said to him), but now she cannot fly back home!

But here is where it gets really dark/sinister. She came back to the husbands house the next day (after night with Jason) packs her cloths, a note is left with some $ (the husband & his wife were only out for shopping and then came back home) and she has basically not been in contact with anyone ever since (not the husband, not her beta or me or not her friends).

The husbands wife has had the baby in the meantime and she has not made any contact to see the baby. Her friends back home have not heard from her and she was meant to send them her part of the rent and now its been three weeks. No one knows where she is, she has no money, she is not answering her phone (goes straight to voicemail) or replying to texts/viber/etc, and shes doesn't know how to catch public transport.

What has happened? Who knows - I'm thinking Loverboy scenario - but who really knows??!! I certainly don't - So anyway, Jason (of Greenvalley, NSW), if you actually read this or if you know him - PM me privately (hay weirder things have happened) or I'm getting the police involved asap (I doubt he reads reddit however). All PMs kept confidential.

Anyway that is my AWALT FR. I'm posting it because for me in some ways it's quite shocking, but it also provides insight in TRP - this girl feels like she loves him after two/three days and even after the husband warned her against it she still went with him. Very much AWALT.

Please Note - I would rather people not talk about what has happened to her. We really don't know, its just out of the ordinary for her to not make contact and people are actually worried for her (also the length of time is factor), perhaps she is fine and happy, perhaps she has gone on a trip with him (and so cannot get calls/data), I don't know and any speculation is BS anyway. Also murder and kidnapping and all that stuff happens very infrequently here, so I really doubt it's that.

Also avoid blowing up my PMs, thanks.