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Strong girl who has been thru hell. Is looking for her one true love <3... Her ideal date would be discussing your job and what you do.

ObviousLoss

June 27, 2019

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Title	Strong girl who has been thru hell. Is looking for her one true love <3... Her ideal date would be discussing your job and what you do.
Author	ObviousLoss
Upvotes	1
Comments	1
Date	June 27, 2019 1:03 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen/comments/c5yx31/strong_girl_who_has_been_thru_hell_is_looking_for/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen/strong-girl-who-has-been-thru-hell-is-looking-for.345163 https://theredarchive.com/post/345163

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[–]where_muh_good_mensSheriff Goodmonkey[M] [score hidden] 7 years ago stickied comment (0 children) | Copy Link

It appears that she is using the victim card to guilt-trip a man into seeing value in her. In that sense she is looking for an emotional bailout. Then in the conversation she wants to know your job, and I see you underlined that because it signals her gold digging mindset. But you know, she isn't really providing any evidence of the bailout in the short and succinct description of what she is about and what she is looking for and the leftovers (her complaints) are not pronounced either.

For older women, it's usually a better post if they are outright complaining about their past or that no good men are left. That way, we avoid are opposition declaring that we think old women are trash and aren't worth anything past a certain point. We don't think that and don't want that represented here. Good men that are old enough to date someone like this are less prone to being taken advantage of. We really want to hammer home the problems that younger women have or that older women reveal, and this post just doesn't do that.

cc u/kevin32 I think this is a good example of a borderline post that requires some additional restrictions based on the character, age and veracity of complaint. A fringe post for the bailout category, if you will.