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Single mom gives up and becomes an "exotic dancer" when she can't find any good men

AliBarakat

February 28, 2019

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Title	Single mom gives up and becomes an "exotic dancer" when she can't find any good men
Author	AliBarakat
Upvotes	1
Comments	9
Date	February 28, 2019 10:55 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen/comments/avx9xo/single_mom_gives_up_and_becomes_an_exotic_dancer/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen/single-mom-gives-up-and-becomes-an-exotic-dancer.346681 https://theredarchive.com/post/346681

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[–]kevin32Reddit's Ambassador for NiceGuys™[M] [score hidden] 7 years ago* stickied comment (9 children) | Copy Link

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[–]kevin32Reddit's Ambassador for NiceGuys™ 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

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[+][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Ohh, forgot to answer your question. Sugar Bailout doesn't require a relationship seeking woman, but I would say it doesn't exclude it either. It's mainly for women who use sympathy or with some need that justifies them asking for money or deserving a sugar daddie. Like they are deceiving while selling sugar baby services. A common cross is between single mother's putting their children in their profile to how how they deserve to be taken care of because they have mouths to feed and the man should just step up. In those Bailouts the woman is attempting to trigger male provider instincts in order to take advantage of him.

I see gold diggers as a woman who may have otherwise been a good catch but end up ruining their profiles with some demand for the man to spend money. They are just used to having things paid for so that's what they expect. Or they seek out good men to lavish them as that exposes womens purpose for love is an exchange of resources. Not something that is necessarily a failure on her part, but this helps men realize what they are dealing with so they make better negotiators.

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[+][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It's the lines about you not interacting with her without bringing only money. She is <prostitutes profession> looking for $ first. The line about kid, friend, family and love is to get past the scrutiny of the dating app service that is required by law to censor prostitution ads.

Some sites are up front about being a sugar baby or the Carol is up front about her intentions. Then we want to see if she is abusing mens good will to financially support her. That is a sugar bailout.

I'll admit the lines about her kid, friends and family seem like a deception being used, but you have to read into the profile more that what she is literately saying. She wants to exchange her services for your cash. If we allowed profiles that solicits men to pay for sex then the definition of a "good man" would be degraded as those types of men do not want or care to engage with those types of women.

I did ask the question, if this type of carol could be purposed into some experiment, but u/Kevin32 agrees it is best to fit rule 5 and that we have other types of content already set for the weekend.

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[–]kevin32Reddit's Ambassador for NiceGuys™ 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link