So I (22m) went on a date. The most degrading, humiliating moment of my entire life.

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I met a woman on a dating app she said she wasn't looking for a hookup just looking for someone to hang out with i asked her in so many words if she meant strictly platonic and she said we'll see. Okay great I drive 45 minutes to her house I get lost and I call her up, "Hey can you get me cigareeetteeeesssss" yeah so i show up at her house she hugs me we go inside and sit on the couch and for a solid 10 minutes she lectures me on how it was wrong that i asked her if she was open to sex then she told me how she has 2 kids taken by the state in california and one autistic kid that would be coming home in 2 hrs.. we watched a movie i tried sitting closer to her and she freaked out and lectured me about personal space and boundaries (this is date? i cant sit next to you?!?!?) the movie finished and i asked her if i should leave so it wouldnt be awkward for her kid... she said no it would be fine if i stayed then she said she was thinking about getting pizza and she asked me to go pick it up (PICK IT UP) but i ended up buying 40$ worth of pizza and beer for this psycho... the kid came home we ate the pizza we sat on the couch the kid used me as a jungle gym while she texted other guys for about 4 hrs i was about to get a beer (i paid for) when she grabbed it out of my hand she said "im gonna get drunk off those and you have to drive home soon" 1hr later when the last movie ended she said "im going to bed you have to leave" i got up and sprinted out the door havent talked to her since now im laying on the floor in my bedroom which has no furniture in it balling my eyes out because im so lonely and people are just going to take advantage of me.

Update: I caught a cold from her kid crawling over me.

Update: found a better date through this post.