"I am Tired of Men wanting to F*ck me, but not Love Me."

kevin32 · 2017-05-18T13:55:19+00:00

This is an example of a woman in her "Chasing Chad's Commitment" phase, more commonly known as the "Epiphany Phase". She's approaching the Wall and wants to secure an attractive man for a long-term relationship with the potential for marriage, but her jerkish boyfriends and lovers only want sex. But she still doesn't want a Good Man yet because "too nice" and "boring". She's still seeking "Good Man" qualities from the bad boys instead.

It is also at this point that career-driven "strong independent women" chase high-SMV men such as handsome doctors, attorneys and business owners.

I'll be copy-pasting this explanation in future "Chasing Chad" posts for both old and new members so everyone can understand what's going on.

Blaat1985 · 2017-05-18T18:10:55+00:00

This comment is golden :

Finding myself in the same situation. Maybe I’m attracted to the wrong kinds of men. I sure am tired of men trying to use me in this way. I’m not in any kind of hurry for a relationship, but it would be great if someone were at least interested in getting to know me some. I feel like I have plenty of men to have a physical relationship with yet no options whatsoever for the remote possibility of a relationship. Always alone on Friday and Saturday nights with the exception of the late night booty call.

"I am not interested in a relationship but want someone who wants to get to know me , I'm always alone on the weekends except for when I invite over a late night booty call ( who is probably way too attractive for me to keep around Long term)". Somehow she's being used by getting exactly what she wants ?

Title	"I am Tired of Men wanting to F*ck me, but not Love Me."
Author	kevin32
Upvotes	23
Comments	5
Date	May 18, 2017 12:57 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen/comments/6bw01x/i_am_tired_of_men_wanting_to_fck_me_but_not_love/
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