My dream is to become a better version of myself, get a good job and start a family. But I just can't understand how I will have a family when hypergamy exists.

Do I accept I'm just going to get cucked while married? I can't accept that. So what do I do? I want start a family in the future. I want to become better so I can give my future sons a better future, but how will I start a family when hypergamy and is being thrown to my face?