There's actually two questions here, although the second one ties into the first.

  1. What is RP Christians thoughts on premarital sex and spinning plates?
  2. Under the presumption most girls these days have high body counts, wouldn't there be an underlying power imbalance to the relationship if you went into the relationship with low/no notches and she went in with 20+.

I've been a Christian and gone to church all my life. It wasn't until my mid 20's though when I had a spiritual experience that my faith truly grew. It was after my experience that God become a reality for me and not just ideals on which to base my life. I always try to do the right thing in life and do good by everyone. It's the reason I joined the military, because I truly believe there's something I'm meant to do here.

It wasn't until a couple years ago that I started spinning plates. Up until that point in my life it felt like I was moving from heartbreak to heartbreak. It wasn't until I was in my mid 20's and had improved my SMV dramatically that I was able to frequently spin plates. The end goal for me is ultimately still marriage and a family with the right girl but for now I'm just enjoying spinning plates until I find the right one. As I haven't been on RP Christian for very long is this sentiment immoral? From what I've read of Bible verses pertaining to premarital sex it's hard to find a hard definition on it. It seems that the most immoral act is adultery, and premarital sex just being something that's recommended to be controlled.

The next part of this post I pose to you is: if you believe that spinning plates is immoral, wouldn't there be a considerable power imbalance when you marry a girl and she has a high notch count?