Okay I think this is a great example where red pill meets blue pill.

So my girlfriend has said she has googled boundaries and made a list of boundaries that she wants to discuss them with me. I think she views it as a bit of fun.

How should one approach this? I do want to set boundaries but also I don’t want to try and control someone. If they do something repeatedly I don’t agree with I would just dump them rather than constantly trying to enforce “rules”. That said I do think we should communicate so we each know where we stand.

I am confused on how to approach this.