The psychology that goes through the mind of these men of "she wanted to fuck all the Chad's and have fun but now since Chad won't wife her she wants me. I don't want to town bicycle when she is done" reeks of inexperience in the real world dating.

This is small town thinking. Nobody will know who the town bicycle is in a city of 1M + people. Even if you meet a woman who has a high N or casual flings you would never know since you'd never ever have reason to bump into the men she dated or had ONS with. Just as men have their rules of "don't shit where you eat" most women don't go parading their vagina in their networks of people who she knows, knows eachother if she does, she is a subsection of a minority of women.

Reasons why she is on the market:

A. Women know they have more of a biological clock than men do and are reminded. If you are from a traditional family background parents already start to look at you sideways when you reach 25+, graduated university, started a career and don't have a serious relationship.

  • Some of the women from this group, probably dated men in secret while in school since parents don't want their daughters dating until school is done.

  • Others didn't date at all but family obligation is starting to weigh on her and she doesn't want to get set up by parents

B. Majority of people on the dating market now who are mid twenties or early thirties are men and women who got out of relationships where they realized it was not going anywhere, stayed single, healed and are starting the hunt again