There is no point in being friends with women.

The last woman i chased friend zoned me because i treated her nicely...i was passed the "being a dick phase" to pick up bar sluts and other young dumbos, so i met this chick via a mutual friend who is married...

Big mistake.

We started hanging out few times a week...mostly at bars.

I then stated that i wasn't too fond of bars and when she ignored that basically, that should have been my out....but i wanted to bang her gash....

so i chased it until i got starfish wonderbread sex for 3 mins one day spontaneously - her attitude was one of as if she was throwing up her hands and taking one for the team.

Was lame....this was back in 2016 when i stopped chasing and went on a dry spell for a while...i thought i "needed sex" but in reality it was some game i was playing with myself to live up to some challenge i made up in my own mind.

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I have never really been a beta billy and i have always been in great shape at 6"1.

but...but.....there comes a time when you start to think you need to settle down finally and boy oh boy is that absurd and just plain- wrong.

So i basically got friend zoned when i lost interest in chasing her around bars and being basically someone who picked up the check and paid for meals to maybe get starfish sex once every couple weeks or something.

So after i never responded to her texts for a few day after sex when she then proceeded to assume that now it didn't matter that i wasn't fond of bars and we were gonna go anyways which was why i vanish- she tried to lure me back in...

She tried to pretend like she understood why i had nothing to say to her and tried to play victim but i just basically flat out told her that she was not anyone worth my time and when she said "we could still be friends" i said- "nah,no thanks" and never spoke to her again.

She was pretty shocked because now that i think back she probably had 20 dudes on speed dial ready to pay her bills for a whiff of the puss....

She had a weird thing about never wanting anyone(me) at her home at night to sleep and never wanting to ever sleep over at anyones house in a "strange bed" .....she was a nutjob.

They are all nuts.

At the time i just thought, oh this chick just values privacy...but i remember wondering how she afforded rent on the island where she live and i worked....now i know.

She was banging a Dad Chad to live for next to nothing at his families rental property....

RED FLAG numero 1 out of at least 50 ..

There were red flags galore...like the dude who introduced us had a 25 yr old son at the time (i was 33 and she was 30) and she claimed that he was at her house one night and they accidentally must've "fooled around" when she was passed out....aka blaming being a whore on rape- AWALT

You know, at the house she never wanted overnight company at because Chad and Tyrone and Jose and Mohammed were coming over to smash alternately at random times..

I didn't know this until later on right around after i got that starfish sex.

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So like 2 weeks after i ghosted her, i was headed to work on the island, and i saw her driving coming from the town that borders it at like 5:30 am because i used to hit the gym at like 6 before work at 7.

She was definitely coming back from Chad/Tyrone/Jose/Mohammeds house on the CC.

LOL

AWALT!

So that was about 4.5 yrs ago...i heard from her last year when i saw some "blocked messages" fooling around with my phone..lol

I had a different phone back then, her blocked status and info must've transferred somehow...i know nothing about technology..lol anyways

DONT CHASE EM GUYS!'

NONE OF THEM ARE WORTH SHIT!

Since i stopped chasing gash and validation from women nearly 5 yrs ago..i have managed to cut down my weight, quit drinking and doing dope, got a second job at night at restaurant and have saved 34,000$~!

I don't have many hobbies outside of reading, cooking , working out and swimming but i like reddit and i like to learn new things.

Any suggestions?

GYOW!