Found this subreddit couple days ago and I must admit I love it. So I thought why be a lurker when you can contribute then decided to share a story I lived couple months ago. I have been living away from my hometown for better education since 2017 in dorms. I visit my family and friends 2-3 times a year. On my last visit we went to see an old family friend. I knew their daughter(lets call her jennifer) but havent talked a lot. After couple hours, when we were leaving, her mother asked me to stay couple days with them and I accepted. A day later I realized Jennifer started acting kinda wierd, I saw where this was going. That night she was really flirty and playful, she was touching me all over and lying with me on the bed. This wasnt the first time a girl was doing this to me, I think it was 4th. Every time I simple stood up and just made up a lie, got out of the place without making it weird. I did the same thing. Next day I was home and she was still a friend of mine. Chose to not lose my virginity again. Whenever I told this story to my friends all of them called me dumb, told me to take the chance I get(which is not something you get a lot in this country). I didnt really agree with them. I think of it like a trade, it is not something girl is giving you and you are taking it. Both genders are participating and even though she found me good enough I didnt feel the same way with her. A month later when I was talking to a friend(female) of mine, she told me that she fought with Jennifer. And another month later when I was talking with my friend again she told me that Jennifer had 8 boyfriends at the same time. “ Those 8 guys didnt really believe it to be true, they all said she wouldnt do it. Then they decided to meet and talk about it. They meet up and checked each others messages. She has been sending them the same nudes and the same messages at the same time. Can you believe that?” she said. I would die rather then being the 9. guy there. Thats the story, if you have read it so far thx and if you have any tips for a guy of my age please share it with me.