What’s up guys,
Another gem from my friend at (r/Crimsonpill). I really liked this article & it was one of the things that opened my eyes to the fact that if girls are having sex without emotional connection, I can do so as well. Of course, given the COVID-19 pandemic, this may not be an advisable option for a while, but keep this in your playbook if things ever return to the pre-COVID-19 norm.
Hey guys
This is something I appreciate about the culture in Latin America. My uncle used to be huge on escorts and he he was the one who acted like my mentor and introduce me to the world and it helped me. I felt the whole process was a' rites of passage' and good for me overall.
The effects
I lost my virginity to an escort when I was 18. It was no big deal and I didn't care too much about it afterwards. I did not become an addict to escorts, it did not impact my game whatsoever and I didn't lose the "will" to do game, seeing how I've created subreddit completely devoted to the topic, lol.
Most PUA coaches
Most of them are advocating, "Don't get near escorts..blah..blah" I was an assistant to a PUA coach in Las Vegas and he confesses to me that he didn't want to lose his students to escorts or strip clubs. He feared that if he discovered the they would stop paying him and pay the escorts directly. I told him that was not necessarily true since I lost my virginity to an escort yet I was still in the program wanting to improve myself. He told me privately that he saw that I was way less thirsty than the other students and in a positive mood most the time despite facing rejection. He assumed it had to do with not being a virgin and having had these experiences with escorts.
In America
Most guys in this thread are advocating a double standard for men, they are telling guys remain a virgin while their future wives and gfs are having tons of sex. Do you think those girls are having, “emotional connections” no they aren’t they are having sex with random guys over tinder who they’ll never see again.
My friendships with American, Canadian and British guys
Most of them were anxious around women, fearful. had social anxiety. It stems from a culture who has turned their back on them. They come from a culture who has not taught them about sex education(in some cases) about sex or relationships. And in the UK specially who is actively trying to censor the ways in which they could have sex with girls they are interested in. They come from cultures of repression and ignorance.
My Experiences with American, Canadian and British girls
Ironically, most of the girls I've met in the US, Canada and the UK were radially different. They lost their virginity when they were 18, usually to some random guy, ZERO emotionally connection. I'm talking mainly about the girls in NYC, LA, London and Toronto.
My first girlfriend in America told me she used to give blowjobs to random 'cool guys' when she was 18 the lost her virginity to 19. I was open minded and non-judgmental since she was now giving me blowjobs(lol). While the girls from Toronto it was the same story they would go to a table in Rebel and have sex with the promoter. The friend from London that I met told me she used to hook up with some players from Arsenal and Chelsea.
All of them were taking on BIRTH CONTROL, HAD the PILL, CONDOMS in their purse and had many sexual experiences. I even went with them to get tested for STD's. Theres' free resources in most of these big cities were its mostly girls and couples like Plan Parenthood.
Conclusion
I CANNOT in live knowing this GENDER INEQUALITY exists. It's time for most guys to change their attitudes of virginity and escorts. STOP shaming other guys if they want to see an escort, stop being a tool to weaken men and strenghten women further. Let most guys lost their virgnity if they want to. It will have ZERO effect on their game and in fact will make them way less needy.
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