I wanted to share my experience as a college graduate who’s girlfriend lied about birth control during my senior year of school. And how things turned out. 

I remember this stuff like yesterday. I was 24 years of age and commuting to finish my degree from home. A girl from my past finds me through my brother. My brother hits me up gives me this girls number from the past, and tells me to hit her up.  Once in contact with her I am love bombed pretty hard. I have never heard of anything like a red flag or anything before. I was very against social media a hard person to find. I had a lot of weird hobbies that made it so people didn’t know where I was. I have never been on reddit only four Chan paranormal things.   So this little advice firstly to men on this website. Stay connected to males on the internet do not isolate yourself. Also, males in your life are usually on the plantation. They will not give you honest advice. If anything they have sadistic wishes and want you to suffer.   Anyways so I just have a job, life is good. I’m researching some very cool things for this senior thesis class. A few months into studies this girl I’m seeing with dips to California. Without notice. I here about this second hand.    Turns out she went to some weed farm. The way it was described to me was some like drop city Grateful Dead type shit. More then anything I hate in this world are fucking hippies. Especially the kind that branches off anything boomer.    Anyways I was upset but figured I would move on with my life, about to graduate college. Then soon I get hit with “I’m pregnant it’s your baby.”   So I start doing the math and I guess it barely squeezes by in terms of making sense it would have to be mine. As in I was at some point purposely sperm jacked before she left (I calculated this recently.)     Jump forward to she moves back because hippy commune didn’t pan out. The whole weed farm went crazy with hardcore drugs and some lord of the flies scenario so I sell ALL my music equipment to buy her a plane ticket home. First off let me point out something. I learned from this experience no unborn life is worth more then you men. Never.   So she comes back I get an apartment she has the baby. I get a paternity test. Wow. It’s actually mine. Looks like me as a baby.

I’m happy. She literally doesn’t do a thing around the house after I work a ton paying and cooking everything then that’s OK I’m a “nice guy” but it gets better. Soon after she is healing and feels good a lesbian friend of hers starts hanging around. Grows attached to my kid. Nothing seems weird until..... I go out and party one day. I don’t want to leave the party. Fight ensues. I come home that night. In the morning she says “what are you doing here.” I say “ it’s my apartment I can stay here what are you talking about.” She continues to ensue fight and provoke things. She yells get out like nothing I’ve seen before so I dip. She secretly packs all my stuff with kid. ( I actually played this right. If there was a fight and the cops came I would have gone to jail) Fast forward she packs up her things while I’m gone. I have apartment to myself. Will have to talk to lawyers about kid. Then, when out one night I come home police are literally taking things from my apartment. This will give me chills until I die. Just armed cops with vest and gloves cataloging things from my apartment in the parking lot. I pull up and think something is weird because it looked like some one died. So I didn’t enter my apartment and went to a friends. Turns out if I was there when they had a warrant (yes they got a warrant in literally 2 hours) I could have been like taken away for questioning. My baby mom and the lesbian lover conspired against me made up false accusations of my online activity. They needed no evidence. Police took every electronic. Crazy part is when they “searched my apartment” it literally was just like the movies. They completely destroyed the place. Literally broke all my picture frames through them on the ground. Like gestapo type shit. Oh what’s in this shoe box? Let’s throw it on the ground. The funny thing is later I was accused of destroying the apartment in later court proceedings. To this day she doesn’t believe the police would do that kind of damage. Nothing came of this of course. Soon the lesbian pretty much died of shame and came to my house one day looking to apologize and testify on my behalf. This situation literally made this lesbian girl insane because of the sleepless guilt she had about what happened. She did not need to testify against me about whatever they where searching for. She wanted to help me get full custody of my kid. LOL also I got PFA from a boomer judge. Boomers are total cucks. If you are a boomer reading this I’m not sorry. You guys just love to dole out beating to young man because of some insidious thing inside your soul. Go to hell. During this process I have to go through getting my money stolen through child support. Every couple of months I meet with a commissioner where I have to meet with my ex and get more time with my kid. This goes from every weekend to every three days and since mid last year I got 50/50. It was a hot summer during all this. A summer of blood. I became soon known as the town villain. My car had swastikas drawn into it several times. I pretty much was gaslighted by everyone even my family as they still didn’t genuinely believe I wasn’t guilty even though no charges were brought on me. Not even a single charge. I don’t think you understand how easy it is for that to happen. I was a white knight who never went out of his way to defend women. I only wanted my interesting research art projects and I thought a cool girl came into my life and hunted me down. So why not give her the time of day? I was always a nice guy if someone needed something. I was an “egalitarian.” Now I can start the second chapter of my life. I found during this process you actually don’t need lawyers for a lot of things. I will be getting myself out of child support either by reducing it because I have 50/50 or purposely getting fired in the next couple weeks. Just so you know men, all lawyers in your towns family court are connected and rats. They make the cases as easy for the judge as possible so everyone can have easy jobs ON YOUR DIME so they can all send there kids to Harvard. 

   I had a lot of opportunities to do some really great projects. I also learned however, a white knight in any form never produces anything of value. Whether it be in the arts or science. Being the dark knight is, the most poetic existence.