Summary: I have just dumped a girl who I was seeing, ignored the red flags because she was a 8/10.

I have written a few posts about this girl I have been seeing off tinder. I had enjoyed her beauty over her actual personality. I highlighted some red flags in our very brief "time together."

I have received a lot of abuse in the previous posts, and rightly so. These were rookie mistakes. So rather then show where I've gone wrong, I've made a note of where I did too.

To cut a long story short, we've been seeing eachother, however she wanted something more. So I considered it, and basically decided to consider her for a LTR. However, her game playing, her lack of empathy, and also her denial to ever be doing something wrong were the tipping point. We had a night booked for tomorrow but I decided to cancel it as I literally couldnt be bothered with the stress of her bullshit anymore.

Sounds crazy, I know. We planned dinner, but there was no way of her coming back to mine. So I just told her I wasn't keen on her anymore, and its driven her mental. I asked if she wanted to sort it out to meet me friday, otherwise I wasn't interested. Funny how less is more? Not in the red pill world.

So lets look at the red flags I stupidly ignored because she was very hot with a very tight poon:

  1. She had just come out of a 4.5 year relationship - aka vulnerable, emotional. Great to fuck. However a real head fuck for anything more then that.

  2. We met on tinder: To put tinder into respective including her, I fucked 4 different women in September. All off tinder.

  3. She never picked up the bill, nor offered to pay: EVER. Never once did it. Restaurants, bars, you name it. Drove me insane. She however paid me back with "blowjobs" but how much is a blowjob?

  4. Eastern European: Tend to be cold, really strange women. Massive egos because they have high cheek bones and naturally thin.

  5. Early on in interaction mentioned she wanted group sex: how did I forget this?

  6. Was incredibly horny at the beginning stages: Signs I was just a rebound. Got her sexual fix. Admitted she loved how I turned her on and fucked her. Soon as she mentioned she wanted to be more then a fuck buddy, and I stupidly agreed, she was half as horny, but still fucked me. Weird one.

  7. Admitted to me "I'm hard work" - "Im demanding, Im moody, I can be a real pain in the ass." I dumped her/ended it this morning.

  8. She could not take feedback at all, was interpretting it as "youre attacking me:" e.g. me "out drinking again are we?" her "omg yes, its my life, i can drink, do whatever I want, why are you yelling at me" p.s. this was over text.

  9. Never took phone calls: Ever. Hardly spoke to me on the phone. Ever.

  10. Didn't really care for me: I mentioned things about work, etc. She would just ignore it and talk about herself. Whats new RP eh?

  11. Often took towards the end ages to respond to messages, and play games with texting: At a stage where she tells me she wants to be with me, and I stupidly say the same but not completely, games appear. She starts acting strange, and aloof. Classic sign of a girl who is a fuck buddy who wanted more and cant believe she got it. Rookie mistake by me.

  12. Social media/selfie whore: She would constantly send me photos of herself, as conversation fillers, as well as all over her instagram. WTF is that all about?

  13. She mentioned "There should be no rules in a LTR" - So in that case all couples in LTR can sleep around? No rules right?

  14. Constantly compared me to her ex bf - "MY EX DIDNT DRINK WHY DO YOU?!" Oh fuck off.

  15. Overly sensitive: Had to tread eggshells. Always the victim mentality. So so annoying.

  16. She loved to argue: No brainer here

  17. In first 10 days we met 5 times: Ok she sucked me off in my car and we had fun, but still too much too soon. She initiated it EVERYTIME.

  18. Loves to be in control: See ya.

So what did I do ?

From me coming a day away from asking her out to be my gf, the opposite has happened. I expected her after making her wait on what I felt about her for a bit to actually saying "I think I see something between us, lets discuss more in person" she tailspinned into an absolute nightmare of a woman. We had planned to meet tomorrow, yet it was the last straw. Last night it was all so emotional. From me and her, but I did it half serious, and half serious.

To see her admit her "feelings for me, and how she craves and misses me" but still see her trying to play games by staying online late, half replying etc etc. We had agreed to meet face to face to chat and hang out tomorrow (where she originally expected me to meet up with her to ask her out) but I literally told her I dont want it anymore, and if she wanted to sort it, she should come over to mine friday.

What did she do? Her hamster has spun out of control. Here are the texts:

http://imgur.com/a/NGZT3

I havent replied, but I'm considering telling her once again to come friday to "sort things out" but really to fuck. Thats it.

There is so many lessons learnt here. I still have a lot to learn. Im going to work on my confidence. I got no problem banging girls, but I didn't like how I almost came close to asking out this nightmare of a plate. This is the second time this year I've been the dumper, rather then the other way round. Its refreshing, and as I write this, the stress relief of not being concerned on this nothing of a fling makes me happier.

Perhaps if youre going through similar crap, make a list, but a red pill list and see where or what is the reason things aren't right.