Looking for some help

FeedMeMore22778534 · 2020-01-23T17:25:51+00:00

Make yourself so tired physically (ie manual labor or working out) that you’re too tired to let the negative emotions control you. If you’re not tired physically, you’re more active mentally. Watch Wes Watson on YouTube for tips

TigPlaze · 2020-01-23T17:26:00+00:00

Seek out the services of a quality sex worker or a professional cuddlist. The women who do these jobs well treat a man well. Not everyone is good at it. You will need to search.

roxon89 · 2020-01-23T17:31:17+00:00

You are in no position to be dating. You are in a position of “need” and need is a terrible basis for a relationship.

Take at least one year...work on yourself, your finances, your career and being the best dad you can be to your child.

Then, once your head is screwed on straight, go ahead and date if you want.

2020-01-23T17:55:21+00:00

https://www.petfinder.com/

https://www.adoptapet.com/

I can relate you what you are saying. I've felt the same. My life changed for the better when I rescued a dog and we instantly became became best friends. Obviously this was many years ago and she's gone now, but I learned that having a dog around was the best companion I could ever wish for.

If you still need to date women, do so, but maintain healthy boundaries (no cohabitation, no marriage) and make sure she’s not crazy (false accusations).

mikeysixpointsix · 2020-01-23T17:31:52+00:00

Make some guy friends that have similar hobbies. They’ll keep you busy, so you won’t constantly be thinking about women. You’ll start doing things that you normally weren’t interested in. For example: my roommate is big into UFC, recently he asked me if I wanted to go to this UFC party at a sports bar that had a huge projection theater size screen. The place was lousy with thick necked blue collar joes. We laughed, drank beer, high fives and had a great time. There was no drama and the place was packed. The only people that didn’t fit in were the 3 loud ass chicken head bitches in the corner of the room. Their boyfriends dump them there and I didn’t see them till the actual main event. And I know why. Over all had a great time though doing something that I normally never gave a shit about. The point is you need some time away from women to figure out who and what is important to you. You’ll have a way better time hanging out with bro’s fishing, hiking, camping, shooting guns/hunting, gaming, whatever than you ever will shopping, having pick-nicks, gossiping, etc. Trust me.

Also, if you don’t jack off, start! If you do it very seldom. Do it more. Pussy is just pussy, bro. It never changes your life in a positive way for more than two minutes. Get over women! Take back your strength, and say no more often. You (and your kid) are the most important thing in your life.

It’s gonna take time. God speed.

aniani04 · 2020-01-23T19:01:52+00:00

I have a video for you that will answer all of your questions:

https://youtu.be/Kx-4s1gGOkA

Copypastable · 2020-01-23T19:31:59+00:00

Replace a fake bitch with a real bitch.

_donthehero_ · 2020-01-23T19:47:09+00:00

U need to heal first and set 1 goal that you either always wanted to achieve or even just makeup a goal and spend 1 whole month trying to achieve it just 30 days focused on it. Little by little you’ll stop thinking of her

GoodMan_Gone · 2020-01-23T20:10:26+00:00

How can you stop yourself wanting a woman again? By first acknowledge you want a woman again. If you can face that fact it'll open your mind to make a free choice.

Furthermore: don't beat yourself up for her leaving you. I think even women will agree with me she is batshit crazy for just leaving you right away when you lose your job. IMO the ultimate shittest women can pull on you is the one they actually don't have influence in. No sane woman, within the insane realm of XX syndrome, will leave you right away with a major setback. Any relative woman will observe, granted for a limited time, how you deal with a major setback. Are you the guy who takes the pain, get back on your feet and move on or are you the wimp crying for mommy? In the latter case I actually say she's right to leave you.

I'm actually curious. I know there are women lurking here. I'd kindly ask them if I am right. I give my word I won't mention anything on the open forum here. Please PM me if I am right in my hypothesis: if a wife/ GF isn't giving her guy a chance to recover from a major blow she is batshit crazy. I'm so curious to double X sufferer's opinion on this one.

2020-01-23T21:03:56+00:00

Hey man, I want to say sorry first for what happened to you it must really sucks.

You've come to the right place for this kind of advice, after reading what everybody posted I don't think I have nothing more to contribute and I hope you are going to sort everything out.

best regards

unknownmgtow · 2020-01-24T05:25:43+00:00

Same situation.. work.. workout.. stay busy.. stay away from women.

Title	Looking for some help
Author	shit_at_cricket
Upvotes	9
Comments	13
Date	January 23, 2020 4:53 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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