New to Reddit and this group. Yes I’ve been living under a rock. Long story short(ish) I’ve been married 5 years & seriously considering divorce. Against my better judgement I got married to a woman 5 years my senior. We were both in our 30’s so I thought I dodged the bullet of young girls and their bs. WRONG. Now I’m a Young 40 stuck in basically a loveless marriage with a woman who’s grown into what I call a 3 Striker: Old, Fat, & Crazy. Mental problems came up eventually, my “thicc” gf turned into my Fat Wife, and instead of rising to my level as it were - I work Construction so I like being in shape - her Couch potato ways have rubbed off on me. Mentally she’s already an Old Lady, if that makes sense. I need out, just don’t know where to start. One thing I got going for me is we don’t have kids, other than that? I dunno. Anyway I’ve been combing through the threads looking for answers and just wanted to thank you Posters who’ve come out better on the other side of BS like this.