Heads Spinning

Tellnone25 · 2020-01-05T12:47:24+00:00

Yeah, I understand but it is your own inner demons that are causing it. We men want to believe in the illusion of a happy submissive wife with 2 well behaved kids.

That is not reality. We all die alone. But that doesn't mean we lived alone. Your connections with others will form integral parts of yourself.

Robbin Williams and Stan Lee died and the ones grieving the most were their fans. Their family were just arguing about their own inheritance.

Make friends and earn their respect, then make a positive impact on society. We all gotta make the best from a bad situation.

SawsRUs · 2020-01-05T12:26:35+00:00

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2020-01-05T13:27:31+00:00

Like I said before, I'll say it again, if you want to even consider marriage:
- She has to be a virgin.
- No facebook, no instagram, no social media.
- Younger than 22.
- Submissive.
- No tattoos.
- Didn't go to college.
- Knows how to shut the fuck up.
- No history of drinking or drugs.

The list is longer, but if i had to shorten it all the way, this would be it. If you don't have these, don't even think about it.Even if you have these, doesn't mean you're safe, Still AWALT, but the best deal you can get.

holidaysboots · 2020-01-05T12:48:59+00:00

It's a cold world out there. You have to find the fire inside yourself that will keep you going. Unnatural circumstances require unnatural solutions. The modern man is orphaned at birth and has to adapt.

I think it's a natural progression you're going through. When I was in my early 20s I wanted to have children too. My then girlfriend didn't want to hear about it until we were financially stable. I had a few male friends going through the same phase with women not willing to commit having children so early on ( when you're just out of college, at entry level jobs, etc.). Maybe if we were rich they would've loved to have children, maybe it was a blessing in disguise, maybe it was a product of the times. The point is you need to focus inwards.

boltjamison · 2020-01-05T12:25:41+00:00

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Itisoutthere · 2020-01-05T12:46:27+00:00

I give you some blasphemic words and something out of my life.

I grown up as something like a MGTOW never knowing what all of that could be.

When I was young I looked arround and saw nobody is happily married and the couples who lived together without the ring started to become bored of each other and changed their partners after a while.

My father left my mother and me when I was 10 years old.

It was hard sometimes to have nobody to ask this boy typical questions and kudos to my mother which did her best to tell me many things about live. And that there is a difference betwen a man and a P*ssy.

She also told me that I should be carefull with women cause some of them are not made to live with you all of your live...

I made my life up till the time i was 27 .Never want to settle down. I met some women and I had my lessons which help me to have one simple rule . What mine is stays mine what yours is will be yours and I dont want or need it. I do the things that are needed for me and have the right to earn from them. So its my car not ours, its my house not ours , its my fridge not ours . Why? Cause I paid the bills in cash.

Some month later after my 27 birthday the red flag happens a women is pregnant.

What do ?

Take responsibility of course !! I said to myself that I had parties and so on and now I can settle down but I had the words from my mother in my ear and thought about everything i saw and learned in my live.

So back to my rule.. I paid , I cared, I worked hard..And I showed her that she is nice but not the black hole in my universe which make everything running around itself.

But after about 15 yrs I become a boring person in her opinion (everything worked fine , all the bills are paid and so on) and I was told that I am very selfish to the mother of my child and she left. So thats the absolut standard every man can or will see with every women its only a matter of time (AWALT).

Ok is that a drama ? No it is not cause I ever followed my rule and let her be a part of my life but at this day she has to face the fact that she owns nothing then a pack of tupperware and some clothes. She took my child with her and left my house.

After 3 month my child wanted to come back to me after I be the dad that I think a man should be and was there for my child all the time.

All that text for what?

Its only the short story of a guy... Yes it is. But when I look back I would say you could be MGTOW and have a family.

But you will never find the unicorn that except the fact that your live isnt her propertie.

Even if they are pure independet they want you to change .

Even if they tell you that they wan`t a real independent man you have to accept the borders of living as a couple.

Is it worth that?

I become father by coincidence and I love it to be the father of my child. So its a Yes.

Would I do it again? Clearly NoT !

I got a vasectomie shortly after birth of my child to protect myself.

mvlock · 2020-01-05T13:17:32+00:00

religion and society masked us from the real true of woman and our biology

we always believe that family is the nature path to anyone

its hard to make that switch, its takes time

relax it will pass

horse3y3s · 2020-01-05T13:23:46+00:00

One thing that helped me accept things was to think about them like the planets or stars.

They are what they are.

You see this is a knife in the back because you were unaware, like a mouse slowly approaching the cheese in the trap. Now somebody made you see the trap.

Was it salvation? Was it better to eat the cheese and die or keep living as a mouse that can see traps? It's up to you now

SirCherryLong · 2020-01-05T13:08:08+00:00

I want to say thanks to the men replying to my post. It feels like Im a toddler wandering through this new maze. Everything you have all said helped expand my POV and the scope of the bullet I was lucky to, and am continuing to dodge. So thank-you

SawsRUs · 2020-01-05T16:58:19+00:00

> I can't help but feel lost.

If you want certainty & a path through life, swallow a blue pill. Its what most people have done throughout history; confusion is the truth

> Being family oriented feels like natures knife in my back

You can buy children. There are options you'll get shamed for, but they work

airmaildolphin · 2020-01-05T20:08:04+00:00

You can still have kids if that is something you are interested in. There are lots of kids up for adoption although I don't know what being a single man will do for your odds of being approved to adopt.

Grant1412 · 2020-01-06T02:57:11+00:00

You haven't missed out. There is no way you could ever have what you want out of marriage. No woman ever wants to commit to life long monogamy. Not when the option of promiscuity and hypergamous freedom is right in front of her. And once tasted, no woman can go back to being without them in her life.

The choice is not yours. It's not a matter of just walking away from MGTOW. No man, blue, red or black, can ever have what you want.

The truth hurts, but I will choose to know it every time.

godword · 2020-01-05T13:36:02+00:00

listen to me GOD is above the dome

he is with you

talk to Christ he can hear you

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IAcp3BFBYw4

Title	Heads Spinning
Author	SirCherryLong
Upvotes	56
Comments	19
Date	January 5, 2020 12:02 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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