New to this topic.....

irwinr89 · 2020-01-01T15:46:33+00:00

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thatMGTOWguy · 2020-01-01T14:44:46+00:00

Literally nowhere does it say a man shouldn’t have female offspring. The choice of what gender to have as an offspring is anyway not in a man’s hands so that is something uncontrollable.

strongandhappy · 2020-01-01T17:30:43+00:00

Care to reconcile what you just said with this?

"I successfully reconciled with by W from a one month affair 6 years ago, it was very difficult first 3 years and even thou we are ok now ironically I would advice against it, it changes you and the marriage forever.... I wouldn't do it if I had a choice all over again....."

kruggerand · 2020-01-01T14:59:12+00:00

To me MGTOW is more of a romantic type relationship set of principles. You can use redpill knowledge with your daughters for advice to them but that advice is limited in helping really . Dealing with females in your family (mom, daighters) its a different dynamic altogether.

captainsaveahoe69 · 2020-01-01T15:29:37+00:00

If its working out for you and you're happy whats the problem

Me2Brah · 2020-01-01T16:14:08+00:00

Can I ask how have you been happily married for 22 years?

TigPlaze · 2020-01-01T19:43:45+00:00

There's no MGTOW rule against having daughters.

Ocjab · 2020-01-01T20:38:03+00:00

There is nothing you can do... feminism is so ingrained in society... You see your daughters maybe 10% of their entire living. The rest of the 90% is spent being indoctrinated by feminism. School, advertisement, social media, movies, series, their mother, ...

My daughter is quite young and if she ever comes to me with questions, I'll answer them. But she will probably never listen to me because I'm not a woman.

Kuoxsr · 2020-01-02T04:51:53+00:00

People are apparently not understanding what this guy is saying about his daughters.

He is NOT suggesting that MGTOW has anything against a man having daughters. I agree that the statement is strangely worded, but another interpretation exists (unless he's a troll.)

What he is saying (if I'm interpreting it correctly - I could be completely wrong) is that if he accepts MGTOW ideology, he would have to recognize that his daughters are going to behave according to female nature, and that idea doesn't sit very well with him. How is he to live with that knowledge? Are they doomed to make their husbands lives a living hell? What could he do to help, if anything, if he lives his life as though women were unimportant (i.e., MGTOW principles)?

I really have no advice, as I do not have children, but I do have a mother who has remained married to my father for over 50 years, so all I can say is that there must be some way to overcome evolutionary female nature. Perhaps if your daughters were made aware of the science regarding female nature, they could take steps to counteract it in their own lives. By telling them about it, they could take steps to avoid the pitfalls... maybe? Ultimately, I believe in volition and individualism, so a fully-informed individual can choose to go against millions of years of evolution if they're adequately armed against it.

irwinr89 · 2020-01-03T14:22:25+00:00

To rephrase my initial post, I takeaway that MGTOW for fathers of daughters is not at any odds... I do teach them to make sure they are always comfortable on their own, focus on their career growth and success, and not allow societal views of marriage construct to allow them to feel any less worth or incomplete just because they do not choose it.

of course my W doesn't fully agree, she thinks a marriage and having kids is a big part of life (she does have a point, as otherwise our species would be on its way to extintion). But I do not believe a legal marriage with vows nonsense is really a realistic relationship way anymore this day and age.... It had its time and purpose, but like all things, they either change or die away with the passage of time.

Title	New to this topic.....
Author	irwinr89
Upvotes	1
Comments	24
Date	January 1, 2020 2:32 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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