I wanna follow up a career in the IT sector,but she wants to settle for Medicals..Next year is final year and I feel like I am wasting a lot of time staying with her . Another thing I hate about her is that she hates when I socialise with other people. I don’t give a shit and keep meeting new people, but she despises it and wants attention.She cries a lot and it affects me mentally. I am fucking tired of when she thinks I am going to break up with her . She doesn’t want to go to parties , events and night activities...I feel like I could have better girlfriends or just in general greater time by myself , but I cannot find the strength to ditch her. She is a lovely person and I do not want to hurt her . I think with every situation she starts crying and begs me not to ditch her,without me even mentioning or following up to something of that sort,I started actually wanting to do so. I am by no means a beta and I tried to make her socialise more.I am nice to her but not a simp haha...It’s just not enough for me and I feel like I am limited towards socialising, and pressured with time and activities .. What should I do?(we’ve been together for almost a year and soon will be our anniversary)Thanks in advance!I want to hear older and successful men’s opinions.