It has been written in this sub (and not just here) that guys women don't like to "date" only need to be more bold / show tight frame / behave alpha to become somebodies instead of the usual nobodies. Yesterday I've put this to the test...

I'm somewhat looking for a job and had an interview yesterday. Before technical interview started (programming), I had your usual HR interview where I had to give more information about "myself". In most cases, this is just routine, but yesterday's experience was unique.

First of all, from the moment we met I realized the dissatisfaction in her eyes (found me unattractive... happened before, nothing unique about it) and knew I'm not going to get free rides from her ass. But... she HAD TO interview me and I HAD TO withstand her shit, so this is where the funny part begins.

First of all, I noticed her firm body posture and the way she relates to me: looks straight to my eyes, doesn't flinch a second (very bad signs by the way: she LOATHED me), throws up some useless shit about "her" company, places some routine questions and DOESN'T EVEN WAIT for me to answer, being so eager to end the conversation, but at the same time "put me in my <<underworld>> place" as much as she could. She was beautiful, young, fit, super-brazen and an obvious carouseler that still had some golden years of alpha cock ahead (a woman "in her prime"). In her eyes, I was the hunted and she was the hunter (way above "my league"). In my eyes, she was just a talking un-moistened pussy.

The conversation continued with rock-solid frame from BOTH of us. We were brazenly looking into each other eyes, waiting for the other to accept defeat, we were exchanging super-condensed icy conversations. I caught her off guard a few times and for the moment she acted in defeat (looked below, lost frame). Her beauty was her main weapon (and an effective one), the other being a total lack of attraction towards me (an equally effective invulnerability spell). It's rare for women to show no vulnerability, but this one didn't, so... in the end nobody won even though I played my part by the book.

Lesson learnt:

  1. Women cannot make distinction between a professional and sexual setting and WILL give you a miserable time if they don't find you attractive (just like outside work).

  2. Maintain rock-solid frame is a requirement in entering-exiting hostile interactions undefeated, but gives you absolutely no guarantee you're gonna achieve anything more than that! Only when power balance inclines MUCH to your favour will you be able to bridge the razor-wired fence and get to their moist parts