I am hurting

Loganphoenix122 · 2019-12-04T17:43:01+00:00

Im assuming you are in your 10’s or 20’s. The best way to get it out of your system is in her case: Imagen her with the most dirty and smelly human being and that being is covered in all type of decease and std’s. And he has sex with her and shes is coverd with his decease and likes it and licks him im all the nasty places even his asscrack that he didnt washed for years and has pieces of toiletpapet and shit in it. And she likes it. It should make your stumic turn.

Also every time you think of her think of the bigest firetruck you see with lood ass sirens. And if that doesnt work picture lood fireworks.
Next to it, go to the gym, exercize 2 - 4 times a week, make sure you have a well established workout schedule.
Also get your nutrition right.
get your recouperation right.
And get a mission, passion and drive to what you were created for.
Get into new hobbys outside your comfortzone. Do the same with eating, stuff that you wouldnt normaly eat.
Meditate on things.
picture where you want to be in one, 5 & 10 years.
read books.
learn to ride a motorcycle.
grow a beard.
work and study to get a live you want so you can do what you want and be awesome.
get selfreliant, by saving cash and thinking about your financial future, get out of debt if you have any. And make a financial plan
wright a book.
learn a new language.

Update: - learn that you’re complete and create your own hapyness and start it by healing your past trauma and to see yourself as whole - save money for vacations - become buf and ripped

Last and not least: - be fucking awesome

TaiYongMedical · 2019-12-04T18:07:28+00:00

" I'm really having the case of "oneitis" being obsessed with one girl and I'm really depressed thinking she'll never be with me and how she's much better than me . (Not just one girl but been thinking about many this way) Can the elders please give me some advice on how to make this go away ? I am a true mgtow and don't believe that a relationship with a woman is not to be put on a pedestal . But emotions are running high af and I think I just might propose ... "

She was never yours, its just your turn.

MoonshineGuy859 · 2019-12-04T18:02:40+00:00

The next time you see that chick... take a look at her hands. See those long, perfectly manicured fingernails? Just know that at some point that week her finger slipped through the toilet paper and she had to scrub her own shit out from beneath those pretty little painted nails.

You're pedestalizing her. She eats and farts just like the other four billion of em.

souris101 · 2019-12-04T17:34:52+00:00

Using the word "obsessed" makes me think there's a bit of a problem in your own head. There's no real way of making those thoughts and desires "go away" in my opinion. I've been there when I was way young and the only thing that healed it was time.

Cultural-Pudding · 2019-12-04T17:55:17+00:00

Here is how to take her off of the pedistal. After reading each point i want you to sit back and imagine these things in vivid detail.

Picture you and her laying in bed. You notice it's hotter than usual under the covers. You lift up the sheets and get a big whiff of toxic fart gasses. It fills the room, she can't stop, and it smells worse than out house. Permeating your nasal cavity, a smell so foul you can taste it in your mouth.
Imagine her sitting on your lap. she farts on you only it wasn't just that, she shit herself, on your lap. Uncontrollable diahrea, seeping through her white pants into a puddle on yours. As she bends over and stands up another uncontrollable blasts comes out and hits you in the face. Slightly acidic, hot shit on your lips, burning your nostrils and eyes.
Picture yourself eating her out. With her on top basically sitting on your face. Out of nowhere your mouth fills with fluid. You gag from the strong taste of metal, coppper, like you just ate a handful of pennies that everyone has touched. It's that time of the month again!
Realize that she is probably a whore, like most beauties are. She's had all kinds of dicks in her. Short and fat, long and skinny. Unclean or diseased. uncircumsized. All types of semen unloaded inside. Bacteria from 50+ cock and balls being absorbed by and blending with her vaginal bacteria. For each dick, she smells different down there now. Old men, fat men, men that haven't showered in weeks. Smegma transfer. When you put your dick in her there is no way of telling if she fucked someone just hours before you. Meaning, your going to be covering your dick in some guys cum and all the dirty bacteria and dead skin from his genitals. Hell, for all you know it was her grandpa or father.
Did you know that most women wipe back to front and they often get fecal matter in and around their vagina? Picture yourself eating your girl out. Understanding you are eating her shit and basically kissing some other guys dick of the dead skin that came from his balls which was slapping against your fantasy girls pussy earlier.

If, for someone reason, those things turn you on still... think of the most repulsive things you personally hate about women then imagine that with your girl obsession.

striving2bgr8 · 2019-12-04T18:59:52+00:00

If you really think shes that amazing do this...

FRIENDZONE YOURSELF

Sure, sounds stupid...but if you do that you'll get to see and watch her true behavior and it will open your eyes to what she really is capable of being. Watch her monkey branch from one guy to another. Watch her put out easy for complete assholes and get burned over and over again.

But after that, you wont want her anymore and you'll see exactly how big of a bullet you dodged.

Maximum_Afternoon · 2019-12-04T17:37:14+00:00

Just play the best case "successful" scenario all the way through to it's statistically likely conclusion: marriage, divorce, alimony.

Still want to get all that?

GTOH4U · 2019-12-04T17:38:21+00:00

Dude, I had this years ago, this sort of melancholic situation where I thought I'd never get a woman as good as I had and that she was much better than me. Roll forward a decade and I know I'm too good for her, as a man if your self developing then your worth is increasing, and if her major attribute is looks that is decreasing over time. If her attribute is personality etc, then if you like it then ensure your personal growth is in that direction. When I was in my early 20s plenty of extroverted outgoing women were more socially developed than me... now, I'm educated, confident and rich... chasing around far younger women. Life is good.

pwnzusauce · 2019-12-04T19:46:13+00:00

Just lurk this subreddit and read the stories of people who got their lives destroyed by "the one"

You will soon start coming to terms about the fairytale of happily ever after doesn't exist.

https://youtu.be/cSIDd2pBgL4

MrCarepig · 2019-12-04T22:29:37+00:00

Sometimes you have to get burnt to learn, nothing wrong with that.

augger1 · 2019-12-04T17:30:03+00:00

Are you early 20s?

TheCuckTriggerer · 2019-12-05T04:33:05+00:00

Well you could always do what I call playing the long con, AKA, calculated beta-simp game.

Post wall women or women who are getting close to hitting the wall usually try to lock down a simp, unless they want to become a cat lady.

What you do is lay the seeds and foundation for you to be a future candidate for one of these wall bangers. You do that by simply telling them exactly how you feel about them. No matter how sentimental it may be, tell her exactly how you feel.

Now what's going to happen is you are immediately going to become sub-human to her. She will probably try to break off all contact with you and you may never see her again. Remember though, this is calculated. It's called a long con for a reason.

Make sure you're on some sort of upward trajectory in life to where you know you will be successful and financially stable at some point and they will simply hit you up once the carousel begins bucking them off.

Since you told them once in the past how you loved them, those guys are are the first ones they start looking to simp up once the carousel begins rejecting them.

But in order to take preemptive measures against any of these women wanting to get into a marriage with you, what you do is convert to Islam.

It can just be an "in name only" conversion, it's only meant to act as a safeguard. If she wants to get married, you tell her that you are a strict fundamentalist Muslim. I'm talking ritualistic clitoral removal fundamentalist.

The prospect of losing her clit will really sour a western woman on marriage.

And on the off-chance the wench actually submits to the surgical procedure, getting bored and attempting some sort of second wind and thinking she can try and get back on the carousel again will be something you can worry slightly less about because she's less physically incentivized for promiscuous behavior.

Then you can have your pick of the litter. It's akin to shopping for your new car at a scrap yard of course, but at least you'll have something that get you from point A to point B.

If you do reach that point in life though, there's a chance you will might get some confidence and attain Alpha status, and if you haven't gone full mgtow at that point you can just go after younger chicks between the ages of 19 and 25 and look at these post wall wenches trying to hit you up and simply laugh at them.

BlackPillPusher · 2019-12-05T08:51:25+00:00

Lurk moar

Title	I am hurting
Author	augger1
Upvotes	18
Comments	34
Date	December 4, 2019 5:28 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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