Hey guys just wanna hear some different opinions about this topics. So I’ve been in a relationship with my current girlfriend now for over 4 years and over the last I’d say year and a half she really got Into going to church and bible study and things like that. She previously has brought up the topic of celibacy last year but I dismissed it. Now she really wants to go through with this. Waiting until marriage thing. I don’t want this at all. I think sex is a big part of any healthy relationship and with out it I feel can cause problems. Not saying that I would just turn her down because of this choice for her life. But my fear is what if I decide to go through with this out of my love for her just to one day find out that she been messing around behind my back. Then all the time I’ve put in would be for nothing. I don’t want to leave her but also not ready to give up sex and I’m just confused on what to do.