This is me:

  • Traumatized (got physically assaulted by a friend) and have mild anxiety/depression
  • Skinny as fuck
  • Shy and rarely speak, and if I do it is in a nervous and submissive tone
  • Lonely and virgin
  • A classic text book nice guy (I help everyone with anything they ask for) not being able to stand up for myself or say no
  • I've never had the courage to even speak with women or hold eye contact.

A girl from my class actually walked up to me and wanted to be my girlfriend. But I got a panic attack and walked away.

Two years later, I wrote to her and asked to get a cup of coffee. She accepted. Here is the funny thing, she accused me of being oppressive towards women.

Why? I dont get it? The only remotely close thing Ive ever said was in a statistic lecture, where the teacher lined up all the men and women and she said that this is a sample group that was skewed to the left side or something. There was a lot more short people than tall. I said "Thats because there is more women in this class than men" (Men are in fact higher than women on average, and so what I said was true). A girl in the class shouted "Women can be tall too!".

What?