When I met a girl - let's say her name is R - I saw a girl with big eyes, a cute body, and a nice smile. I befriended her, telling her about my school struggles, my low gpa, and my lack of friends. I was already red pilled and started rational male by Rollo Tommassi, so I was using a nice combination of PUA game and logic that red pilled males follow - like woman have hypergamy etc etc. When I started talking to her, she seemed very down to be friends and wanted me to come to her house. So we went to her house and I hung out with her for a couple hours that day total. I got her number and we texted about school and hung out to study for a midterm together. It all seemed fine - until I realized - this is not right. R is being kind to me, R is funneling me into her beta orbiter. She is doing it in a different way than other females I have dealt with in the past because here is the rub. The last girl that did to me was forthcoming that she was in a relationship and still wanted to hang out. R texted me yesterday that she can't hang out with me after I asked her if she wanted to hang out platonically because he boyfriend does not want her to talk to other guys. So I responded no means no, thank you - as if to say, ok I get you are a pink pilled girl that has me and a bunch of guys who are interested in you and I do not want to make this sound creepy. Today I go to class and R walks in late, and my mood spikes up a little bit because I noticed I am being observed by the girl that is my current "one." I walk out of class to go to the bathroom and realize that this was such a monumental waste of time because as Tommassi says, girls have an excuse in their own DNA which is their hypergamy. She must have met a hotter flame than me I am guessing. So I am disappointed and leave class early without a word of goodbye to anyone and I go out like that. Last time she saw me. She texts me after class and says Hey r u ok?. And I wait a little bit to respond because I am still pretty emotional. I later respond, Hey I was just tired. What did you mean when you said your boyfriend does not want you talking to other guys? I thought we were just friends. But the introduction of her boyfriend now is perfectly enough to stop me from ever approaching this girl again. R reminds me of every girl that has ever tried to become part of my life and then for some reason forget what our relationship was founded on - friendship - not sex or anything else. I am sick and tired of girls doing this to me.