I’ve been thinking of power dynamics between men and women, and the best way I can explain it is through a pretty complicated analogy. Please bear with me.

Imagine there is a country called Southland. Southland is very, very poor. In fact, it is so poor that it is impossible for anybody to ever become rich there. There are literally no good jobs and for various reasons any money that you make will quickly be spent. The best you can do is hope to have a little more money than your neighbor, but even then your existence is precarious. People in Southland are all hungry and close to the edge of starvation. In fact, Southies regularly starve to death and most people are constantly thinking and obsessing about how poor they are and how to get a few extra dollars. Because crime and theft is so high in Southland, life is miserable, nobody really trusts anybody else, and everybody’s goal in life is to leave Southland.

Now imagine that across the ocean from Southland is a place called Northland where everybody is rich. People in Northland are so rich, in fact, that they don’t even know what poverty is or what its like to be poor. Every single person in Northland is born rich and has been rich their entire life, and making money in Northland is a breeze. Life is Northland is so good that nobody even has to work hard to make money. Because money is so easy to come by, people spend money like it was nothing. Because everybody is rich, it is considered polite and expected to spend your money on your friends. In fact, if you go out to dinner and you don’t buy your friends dinner, you are considered a huge asshole. If you “like” anybody who have to buy them dinner because that’s what friends do. It’s not even a big deal to “loan” somebody in Northland $1000 because you know they will get you back at their earliest convenience. Of course, this isn’t a big deal, because you have tons of money and you know that your friends, who has also have tons of money, will buy you dinner, or whatever you want, whenever you want. Money is literally no object in Northland and nobody ever thinks about it. Now imagine for the purpose of this hypothetical that people from Southland are not allowed in Northland.

Now imagine that there is an island called Funland where people from both Southland and Northland go to vacation and meet members of the opposite sex. Funland is an amazing resort with lots of fun stuff to do, nice restaurants, bars, etc...

In my hypothetical that women from Southland are just like regular women who like love, affection, sex, etc... But when they go to Funland they quickly realize that men from Northland are all rich and spend money like it was nothing. So the women from Southland realize that when Northie guys “like” them, will buy them fancy dinners and other expensive shit just for being around. What do you think these Southie women will do? They will take advantage of it! They will try to hustle the Northie men for everything they have, because in their country, people are starving, so any amount of money they can get from the Northie guys is like a godsend. And the Northie guys fork it over because, in their country, they’ve never thought about money as an object.

So what happens in Funland? Northie men from Northland and the Southie women clean them out until all their money is gone. Broke, the Northie men have to go back to Northland, their vacation ruined. They could have never imagined that somebody would just use them for their money and then abandon them when the money is gone because they were raised around people who didn’t see money as an issue like that. Also, to “fit in” Southie women pretend like they have money and even brag about money and belittle Northie men for not having enough money.

Sometimes the Northie men catch on that the Southie women don’t really want to fuck them but by that time they’ve already lost a bunch of money. Once a Southie woman sucks a Northie man dry, she then moves onto another Northie man and takes all his money too. And of course, a Southie woman would not even look at a Northie man who has less money than her. In my hypothetical, Southland is still a shithole so when the Southie women go back to Southland they lose all their money and they have to go back to Funland to find another victim to suck dry. Sometimes the Southie women have sex with the Northie men, but they know they don’t even have to. And even if they did have sex, the Southie women are more concerned with getting money from the Northie men than having sex or a relationship because, remember, Southie women are starving and they need any money they can get. So even if Southie women “like” a Northie guy, they are just focused on taking his money.

So what is the point of this long, drawn-out hypothetical? If you replaced MONEY with POWER, my hypothetical would represent relationships between men and women.

You see, men are by nature powerful. We are born with testosterone, which, if we are trained correctly, we can translate into confidence and dominance. Men are more physically powerful than women, but more importantly, men are more emotionally confident than women because of our conquering instincts. The problem is that men are born powerful and don’t realize what power they even possess. Nor do they understand that women do not feel that same power. On the other hand, women are like Southie people. They are born poor in power, and nothing they can do will get them power. Because men are unaware of this power imbalance, they have no problem with giving all their power to women. But once women take this power, they lose interest in the men, because they need another power source. And so on.

Here is an important point – the Southie women aren’t “bad.” They are just desperate. Remember, in their country nobody has any money so they need to get money however they can. You can’t really fault them for that.

Everywhere I look, I see men unwittingly give up their power to women because they don’t realize that women are power-starved and are going to do anything they can to just get a little bit of power. Men don’t even understand that “power” is an issue – they just think they are being nice. Remember, like Southies, women can’t get power on their own, so they have to suck it from men. And the moment a woman has “taken” your power, she moves on.

All this sounds pretty grim. Are women all just vampires who don’t care about anything but money and power? Do they just want to suck men dry and then move onto the next victim? That sounds terrible. Well, it doesn’t have to be that way.

Let’s go back to Funland.

In a Funland bar there are a bunch of Southie girls who are looking for men to suck dry. They go up to men at the bar, flirt with them, and then the men start buying them things (drinks, food, etc...). The women might even ask for a loan of $1000 or something, knowing they will never pay the guy back.

Now, in walks our hero. He is a Red Pill Northie guy. The women have never seen him so they see him as a new victim. “He doesn’t know about our scam,” they think. The hottest one goes up to him and starts flirting. She asks for a drink. The RP guy stops her cold.

“I know your scam,” he says. “You come from a country where everybody is poor and starving, so you come here to try to take money from guys. And once you’ve sucked those guys dry, then you move onto the next guy. But you are never truly happy because you will never be allowed in Northland and you will never be able to make money in Southland by yourself.”

“Tell me something I don’t know asshole,” she thinks.

“But I’ll make you a deal,” the Northie guy says. “I won’t give you any money because I know you’re going to try to take all of it and make me poor. But I will let you know ‘tag along’ onto my life. You can go to the restaurants I go to, the events I attend, the cocktail parties I attend. You can basically live the ‘rich’ lifestyle I live, but you can’t take anything from me.”

Assuming that she actually liked him as a person, a rational woman from Southland should take this deal because she would be much happier if she did. She would no longer have to spend her time like a creep, trying to scam guys for $1000 here, $2000 there. Instead, she could live like a fun life with somebody she liked and not have to worry about money.

Of course, many women won’t make the rational decision. Maybe she won’t believe that this guy will really let her tag onto his rich, fun life. Maybe she has been taken advantage of guys from Northland so much that she has a hatred for them and just wants to use them for money. Maybe she gets a thrill from hustling guys for money so that she now can’t have a real relationship.

But a rational woman would be happy because she will be getting what she really wants. Women want a guy who will give them the benefits of being powerful but won’t give up of any his power. Women don’t want to be cunty harpies degrading men with shit tests and ruining their lives. They just want power to be a non-issue for them the same way power is a non-issue for men. Men never think about power – women want to live like that too. The reason women never say “I’m hypergamous and I want a confident, dominant man” is because that’s already a given in their mind. That’s a prerequisite before she can into the stuff she is REALLY into, like wine, having nice conversations, laughing, being a good friend, etc...