Has Anyone Else Been Abused?

jawz2you11 · 2019-10-19T19:55:46+00:00

When I was younger I was physically abused by my father, sexually abused by a women, and my mother neglected me when she won custody. If you want to get better and stronger always trust yourself. And drop whoever is consistently negative. I focus on myself and do what I love and always find ways to improve myself so I’m healthy af when I retire with 200k.

Dwight3469 · 2019-10-19T20:15:11+00:00

I've been kinda sexually abused by a woman (I was 18 years old and she was 19, we were just friends and I came over to her house one evening at he request, and at one point she gave me a blowjob even though I didn't really want nor ask for one, and I hadn't even kissed a girl at this point), I've been physically abused nearly daily for 2 years and a bit for the 2 following years (at around 11 years old, children are fucking cruel and some loved kicking my book into my face when I was just trying to read in peace against a cold wall), and mentally abused for years by my mother who told me things you should never say to your children ("I didn't want you! You're a mistake! I'd be more happy without you and your father! What did God do to give me such a son!").

That taught me life is a bitch, and thanks to all that I know I can live alone without much difficulty, since I spent years of my childhood doing just that. I must admit though that even though I didn't have it pretty, I had it a lot better than some people who I perfectly understand couldn't take it anymore and just went rogue, like school shooters in the US. When I was 11 years old, I thought a lot about bringing a weapon to defend myself because I saw no one would help me (except my father, but he couldn't exactly just walk in the school and beat up kids).

The only constant in my life, and that seems to be common among MGTOW, is the love of nature. Nature is beautiful, nature doesn't seek to destroy you, nature is simple, nature is always there for you to seek her company when you want to.

lonewolf8986 · 2019-10-19T21:52:34+00:00

yup , abused at 14 , 2 'friends' at boarding skool when highly vunerable

pretty much defined my life add in the narcotics and alcohol for escapisim

shafted my life ever since ,pretty much everyone of my ventures has failed

id kill both if given chance...

[deleted] · 2019-10-19T20:21:13+00:00

I‘ve been abused indirectly, without touching. Broken family, crasy mother, ageessive dad. It sucked balls.

But I‘m happy with my life. The past sincerely doesn’t affect me anymore. I have awesome kids, and I enjoy giving them what I didn‘t have. I don‘t have much euphory/extstix joy, but I‘m not empty either.

It takes time. I went through therapy but it was good and bad. Made me blue pilled. I wanted so badly to be „normal“. But it did gave me some stability and recognition of patterns which I‘m not passing down to my kids (that said I‘m far from perfect).

Time is the best healer. Oh, also, if you are in metal pain, take a painkiller, like ibuprofen or sth (don’t do opoids). It helps with emotional heartache!

Wakka_Grand_Wizard · 2019-10-20T09:13:07+00:00

Yeah. After constant questioning and rumination, I discovered that I have Complex PTSD. Oddly enough, my sister has it as well. So, let's see. From what I can remember, my childhood was shite: if i cried, i got more of a punishment. Didn't follow the unreasonable rules? Punished. I was also constantly lied to and discouraged to ask questions. School was not any better. Think of it this way, my childhood was akin to Shawshank Redemption, in that the only 'freedom' I had was inside of my mind.

I dreamt of the day I would find someone who loves me and I love them. I thought i found this dream, after six years she drops me. It was a 'do or die' feeling. I ran to the gym whenever I felt like I could not cope. I had a gut feeling that no one gave a shit and even therapy did not work for me.

I tried being with this second girl, she too drops me. So it was okay for her to not make up her mind about whether she likes me or not, yet somehow I am supposed not be anxious about her indifference to me. Thankfully I had MGTOW knowledge and I could foresee it. If I am honest, I just used the time I had with my second ex for good times. I knew that what she wanted was 'typical'.

I moved to a new place and got a new job oddly enough. Even that is boring me. So, I have summoned that child-like curiosity I once had. Now I find myself wanting to learn maths and physics for a career change in the future. I too want to remain healthy and retire with a lot of money because fuck being in a care home/hospital. If I am going to die, let me die knowing that I reached my potential =)

Title	Has Anyone Else Been Abused?
Author	0neManWonder
Upvotes	14
Comments	17
Date	October 19, 2019 7:51 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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