This is a true story. I could also add, all too frequent in former Yugoslavia. Man meets a woman, she cheats on him soon after. He finds out, gets a gun and goes full revenge mode. Killing a thot is a must, but they often commit suicide as well.

Hence, infamous “ubiću tebe i sebe” threat. Letting her know that if she ever cheats on you, relationship you have will end in body bags. This works for a while, but once woman finds higher value male she will stop at nothing to build her world around him. In other words taking her manipulative shit elsewhere.

For the purpose of this post, We’ll call him Stefan and she will be Dragana. Like tens of thousands of Ex Yugoslavia residents of Vienna, Stefan (52) father of four, meets a waitress Dragana (48). They get involved and under the spell of new cocaine dealer, he makes a desperate decision. He will leave his wife and four children for her.

Things go well for a short ammount of time, but soon after Dragana dumps Stefan for another guy. Stefan goes to her bar, orders a coffee and seemingly nothing dramatic happens. But once her shift ends he follows her on her way home. At some point he approaches her, pulls out a gun sending her in coma. His self-afflicted firing wounds were instantly fatal.

And this is why I decided to actually bother and write about this case. Stefan's knowledge of female pscyche was obviosly heavily limited, he was one of those old school blue pilled men who thought being direct with women will sort everyting out.

Red Pill literally saves lives. Stefan sadly wasn't redpilled, hence his two desperate moves in life. They proved to be he last two he ever made.

A big mistake #1: Indirectly sending her a message of desperate craving for attention and loyalty. Letting her know you turned your back on on your entire family for casual tuna. She knows she's not much, and when you do something like that it instantly activates her propensity to monkeybranch, possibly out of her own female desperation and desire to attain some value in the mirror. Remember she's 48.

I had numerous situations when during arguing I would let a girl know she means so little to me we might as well just quit yelling and go our separate ways. I also ghosted them for days, even weeks. When they would finaly seek out again, they would be relieved I was doing fine. Didn't give two shits of they never call. They love it, because the man they can't brake is the man they want to be submissive to.

Women know they're not much, but will constantly instill drama to try and manipulate you. The only person who changes their value to abnormal heights – is you.

What Stefan should have done, if he decided he would actyally dump his four children for a post wall tart serving coffee, is to conceal the fact he did it. Not openly admit it. This might have sent her a permanent message he has options in life. And man who has options has value in female eyes.

Big mistake #2: You left your family for a tart who's job is to pour coffee to strangers. What could go wrong? They can't resist such a temptation and they won't resist it for long. The moment his value weight is one ounce heavier then your's – she'll most likely make her move on him.

If he was any kind player at all, he would know these things and would use Dragana for what she was. Easy lay. Nothing more. Once she gets bored, fuck her. Find another one. It's just a hoe.

But Stefan expected something he couldn't get. Society told him otherwise, women told him they expected and yearned for it. So he bought the story and lived by it. Wanted romance, passion; but got hard cold reality of female nature. He revealed his importance of Dragana and by doing this he basically devalued himself in her eyes. Completely. In the game of who needs who less, he was checkmated easily. But furious temperament of Balkan male wrote the final lines this story.

NEVER do act of desperation to win her over or stay togather. You will actually lose her fairly soon after. Act of desperation makes you weak in her eyes. No matter how romantic it may be for you. We don't think and value decisions the same.

ALWAYS make sure you are a male of value in her eyes, have your boundaries known and make her respect them. ALWAYS have in mind she might sink your relationship if she meets someone better. Having some value is not a bulletproof vest.

When dealing with a ship with a propensity to sink, the must of all skills is swimming! In essence be self-sufficient motherfucker with ability to levitate when shit hits the fan. To be good with women is to become immune to women.