Anyone else MGTOW from giving up?

DigitalScetis · 2019-10-08T19:00:08+00:00

Let me tell you a secret that only MGTOW is going to tell you: you're not a virgin. The fact that you think of yourself as a virgin was a big part of your problem all along, and will continue to be a problem, so long as you cling on to that gynocentric mindfuck.

You, as a male, are about as removed from the condition of virginity as you are removed from the condition of PMS. Virginity is a woman's thing. They have been obsessing about their hymens and what they mean since all of recorded time.

But that's not your problem, so why in the heck are you making it your problem by obsessing over this "imaginary hymen" you have imagined for yourself? Because that's what you do when you call yourself virgin. Stop thinking that their gynocentic language applies to you. It doesn't.

With no hymen to rend, and no virginity to lose, calling yourself a virgin is just a lie. It's time you come to grips with that, for your own good.

You are not a virgin. You never were. I hereby remove from you the burden of dealing with it.

Now go thy own way in strength and resolve!

softbeats · 2019-10-08T18:41:54+00:00

I like to limit the amount of chaotic variables in my life and women are the biggest. My home and specifically my room is my sanctuary from this world and the idea of inviting someone there that could snap at any time and destroy it is insane to me.

Pursue waifus, not women.

Tonyb33 · 2019-10-08T18:55:38+00:00

I don’t know how old you are but you sound young. As you go through life you chasing girls often switches to them chasing you. The mgtow bit comes with the realisation is they are after your stuff and someone to pay their way. As you get still older you wise to the game your head kicks in and you realise it’s a nil win game. Others around you encourage you into the frey whilst you observe them either spending money they cannot afford chasing pussy, or miserable once they get it.

unpropaganda · 2019-10-08T19:45:16+00:00

I just gave up too. It's funny how things work out. I thought working hard in school would make me good husband material. It probably did. But boy, you don't want to be husband material.

But tbh, I think everything has worked out okay. Sure, it would be nice to have a woman to love, but decent women are just too difficult to find nowadays. It's better to just beat off, invest money, and retire quickly.

[deleted] · 2019-10-08T19:04:01+00:00

Young guys really have it tough. See, 20 years ago (which is not long ago, damit!) women had limited choices. Social circles were relatively small, and you made new connections through other people.

Granted, girls always were good in navigating social circles and if they wanted to get to know a boy, they found their way. But still, the potential social outreach was limited to school and your neigbourhood, you know?

So even the weird ones among us got their chance. There was some balance.

Now with digital social media sky is the limit. They can position themselves to who ever, whenever, wherever. Of course they are shooting for the stars. The kicker is, therr is still limitef supply of stars, so most of them need to “settle down”, meaning thry couldnt get what they wanted.

I’m sure you could score in the good old days. As it is today, I would never, ever chase women. They will come after you when their clocks are ticking. You can have some fun then, but got forbit “settling down” with one.

throwaway85176 · 2019-10-08T18:27:07+00:00

Just pay for it bro or Work on yourself and the bitches will line up and clamor for you. Get money get power get status and get pussy. There’s nothing else more attractive to stupid hoes than success. Just don’t marry and don’t cohabitate. Wear a condom with a spermicide.

Fuck a hoe drop a hoe. Treat these chicks like they paper cups. Enjoy them take em for a spin and tell the Thot begone.

peterdukey · 2019-10-08T21:18:44+00:00

Basically, I work a good job, I work out, don't do drugs, don't smoke, keep myself decent looking- girls just don't give a fuck though. They want chad, not you or me. The game is stacked against men. Women date up, men are dating down for the most part. It's a mixture, both sexes aren't the same as they were before, girls have super egos thanks to social media and simps.

ToshinRaiizen · 2019-10-08T21:13:49+00:00

Yes, I did give up. I had moderate success with girls when I was a teenager, but it all vanished when I hit my twenties. No idea why. Maybe because I'm painfully average, so it's extremely easy for me to get replaced. A future as an orbiter was clearly ahead of me. I was angry at first, and after long years of failure with the opposite sex, I was enraged. I thought I was an incel at some point, but I never could get behind the black pill line of thought.

That's when I discovered the magnificent MGTOW philosophy. To live life on my terms, maximize my time, my freedom and my money, and never, EVER seek validation from women ever again. Now at the dawn of my thirties, I never felt better in my entire adult life than right now, at the start of my way.

My own way.

DanSebastopole · 2019-10-08T21:03:55+00:00

Sex is overrated. After the umpteenth time you long for solitude and palm prom.

tyronwind · 2019-10-08T22:25:28+00:00

There is plenty of MGTOW who were PUA before it, friend. For me, the game eventually started to bored me (not that I was particularly good at it). I tried having a girlfriend at that point, but it barely lasted 6 months as I came to the realization that it wasn't the game itself that bored, but women in general. I've been a monk since (about a year now)

throwaway85176 · 2019-10-08T18:28:56+00:00

You seem young by the way don’t worry about it focus on school and getting money. Remember always remember these hoes ain’t loyal.

If you need a reminder listen to lil Wayne’s Mona Lisa

Logandanielsboi · 2019-10-08T20:33:12+00:00

Not from giving up but being fed up with society and finally trying to focus on myself

Malefics · 2019-10-08T22:25:33+00:00

I'm not a virgin myself, so I don't know how you feel 100%, however, I will say that it is better to be a virgin that knows the truth and has self-respect than the desperate virgins who keep chasing women & putting them on a pedestal.

Me personally I still hookup with chicks. I enjoy sex. If you feel the need to want a woman for sex, it's natural. Just remember to use protection and don't treat them like Goddesses.

strongandhappy · 2019-10-08T23:12:24+00:00

If you mean giving up on believing a lie then yes.

DashingWolf · 2019-10-09T02:01:49+00:00

Fuck, I wish a was a "imaginery" virgin at 20 that never wasted $$$$$$ on women, chased my dreams, never got broken and made the bad guy by a manipulative villian.
Not Mgtow from giving up, Mgtow because the game is rigged and the only way to win is not play.

Dude you are not missing shit, sure it can be fun banging chicks at first, but probably have more fun drilling a hole in a 2x4 and going to town on it and then it would still be more useful, because you could make a bird house out of it, hole already made, boom.

itstreasonthen1986 · 2019-10-08T23:51:14+00:00

No reason to try when none of this shit matters. You know what women have to offer? More suffering. That's it. Good on you for figuring this out early before any real damage is done. Fuck what society has put on us. I for one will enjoy the fall.

RinChanIsATsundere · 2019-10-09T00:44:07+00:00

eeeh, im not a male but i do agree that both genders have a problem, :| but hey i think they're soon gonna fix there self...soon. :/

[deleted] · 2019-10-09T02:35:40+00:00

I used to be like that. I wanted sex so badly, I almost became an INCEL. Girls who would date me ended up being horrible people. After MGTOW and learning self self respect and confidence, I don't care what women think about me. Now, I can be a good person without getting shat on.

A man is defined by his own self direction. Well done!

Title	Anyone else MGTOW from giving up?
Author	ImaSealArfArfArf
Upvotes	28
Comments	26
Date	October 8, 2019 6:11 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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