25M, virgin and so far only kissed 2 girls in my life.
Sooo it was day 47 yesterday and I joined some friends for dinner at a restaurant. It was 7 of us; 2 couples and 3 singles being me, my friend and a girl from his hometown. My friend loves just putting 'random' people together for things like dinner or going out. The girl didn't immediately catch my attention as I was sitting quite far from her, but I noticed a few times where she'd laugh when I made a joke.
After dinner, one of the couples left, as well as another girl. So it was 4 of us, and we went to some bars. As you can imagine my friend and the other guy tried were joking around and made sure that me and the girl were sitting together and talked. In fact, we did and hit it off pretty well! I was by car so sticked to water, but she was drinking wine and I guess we got more and more into each other. She is really pretty and I felt pretty confident. However, after my 2 other friends left, it was just me and her, and I noticed some anxiety. I am so NOT used to being around girls in a context like that, and at one point I was shaking a bit. My stomach kinda turned around and I had to go to the toilet. Around 2:30am, we decided to leave and she gave clear hints of "wanting to be brought home".
As I was sober, we went to my car and drove to her place. As my car was idling, we started kissing pretty intensely, and it felt pretty damn good. We said goodbye saying "we'll probably see each other around", and this morning my friend gave me her number.
NoFap doesn't give me superpowers, but I don't feel like this is a coincidence. I've been strict with NoFap, this is my first streak and Ive implemented good habits. I felt the confidence. I felt like I looked good and was actually a "prize" to the girl in stead of always thinking its strictly the other way around. I also realize that I have a looong way to go, considering my body's response to the anticipation of possible intimacy. I was really nervous and there was no way I would've been able to have sex at that moment for example.
Either way, the positive feeling is stronger, as I'm learning to trust the process, not just the end result. For me this is a really big thing. I dropped a girl off home and made out! I never expected my night to unfold like that. It's a step in the right direction boys!!
Good luck to all of you and thanks for reading.
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