Here is my reasoning. As a male I find almost all woman attractive. Even fatties with pretty faces are ok. I could see setting up a family and being loyal to the woman even if I do not love her. If I still get sex , food, kindness etc from her then all is good. I am not good looking so at my point being loyal is not a hard thing to accomplish. I was virgin till 30. Females on the other hand as I have read find only very few man physically attractive . They want genetically top individuals and honestly I can not blame them for that. The trouble is that all of them can not get top individuals and they have to settle. So if they never find me physically attractive how could there be any normal sex life between me and her? How do woman even cope with it ? Basically they are like whores who do it for money. If it is so then for a woman being with a sex demandig beta bux is constant misery. From my point of view if I see a woman that I am not attracted to then it is a complete turn off. No matter how much money , kindness etc does she have I would not want to have sex with her. Does having money and resource really helps them to get wet? What about children. Do they honestly want them or do they want lock down a beta provider?